The Single Sexiest Thing You Can Do With A Woman Is Lead Her

This is a chapter from my book How To Get Girls: The Definitive Guide. Enjoy.

Women love dominant, masculine men. Men who are strong, men who are men. Just like men love women with tight waists and round asses. This is a fact of life. A law if you will. And like all laws of nature you can only crush yourself against them, you cannot change them. It doesn’t matter how strongly you want to believe in something like Feminism it isn’t going to make it true.

One thing that society has pushed is that women want to be leaders and that as a man to lead a woman is somehow wrong. Yet like just about everything pushed by society this is a lie done for ulterior motives. If you read The Primer you know that society often does not have your best interests at heart (if ever). Base your life on what societies says you should and you’ll end up another sheep. Miserable while being led to your slaughter. Base your life on the truth and you will be able to make what you wish out of your life as you will have a solid foundation upon which to rest it.

One of these truths is that women want to be led by a man. Or one of the sexiest things you can do with a woman is lead her.

Leading Is A Form Of Dominating

Despite what society says women don’t want to be the leaders or the bosses. They have an innate need and desire to submit. They want to submit yet in today’s world are rarely given the opportunity to do so. Which often leads to frustration and anger. When a built up need is not met or not fulfilled resentment and anger build up. A woman wants you to lead her, she wants you to make the decision and set the direction in which you go.

Women thirst for being led and dominated like men thirst for young blondes with tight waits and firm asses. They don’t want to make the decisions and set the precedent that is your job as the man. Man is the head of the relationship, regardless if that relationship is a marriage that lasts until death or a twenty minute bang after meeting in the parking lot. Another thing that adds to the sexiness of being led (for women) is that it is not expected. In a society where men are castrated and neutered at every turn a man with his balls in tact is a rare commodity indeed.

There are many places to lead women and ways to do so here are two of the best.

In Life Goals

While I’m not saying you should explicitly chart the course of a woman’s life when it comes to setting the direction for your family or a relationship with a woman you as the man are the one who should do so. If you and a woman are sitting down and discussing what the direction you want to head in is, it is the man that should have the lion’s share of the say. It doesn’t matter if this is setting down career goals or which path to take in the woods while camping. The man should set the precedent and have the final say. This doesn’t mean to not listen to the woman, simply that your decision is the final and most important one.

I see many men when discussing things with a woman (especially if this woman is their significant other) to defer the decision making for her. “What will our careers look like in five years honey? asks the woman “Whatever you want hon” replies the man. And the woman loses attraction and respect for the male she is with. She wants direction, she wants to be led.

Physically

“Let go to the dance floor” I grab the woman by her hand and lead her out there. Meanwhile her eyes light up and she can’t stop smiling. An act simple as that can change a woman’s entire demeanor. When you want to take a woman somewhere do so. Don’t ask, take her by the hand and tell her where you are going. Trust me they more often than not will follow both happily and willingly.

This applies doubly to the bedroom. You must take a woman and ravish her. Do the opposite of the slow gentle love making you see in cheesy movies. Take a woman and have your way with her animalistically and primally. As a man taking and ravishing a woman. Lead her, do with her as you want. Don’t expect her to take the lead in any part of the interaction. The feminine is reactive while the masculine is active.

Remember

Women want to be led. Despite what society and others say it is a biological truth. And biological truths cannot be undone. Lead her, she will be grateful and turned on by it. Women were made to be led by men and for men. She doesn’t want to be the decision maker and she doesn’t want to be the leader. As the man that is your job.

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-Charles Sledge