“You should tell them you think she’s attractive ” totally agree That’s the way I am , that’s my true nature . I like to compliment a woman on there appearance as soon as I meet them , can’t help it . Skin , hair , or eyes .not all three at the same time of course . Sometimes I wonder if I’m at a disadvantage by giving such compliments ,I.e. The pedalstool thing or chateu heartiest 10. Commandment rule , never compliment a girl on her looks if your not fucking her yet . Anyway solid piece on thoughts . There’s a Christian mystic I’ve discovered on you tube by the name of nevel Goddard . He’s like motivation speaker from the late fifties early sixtys decade who talks a good game on thoughts and imagination that’s very inspiring . Just thought I’d mention it .and the way this fella interprets the bible is not like most people do in a literal or historic sense , He interprets the stories like they were psychological events or experiences if that makes any sense .later and thanks for the this piece
Will have to check it out, sounds interesting. And yeah the whole complimenting thing comes from a black and white mode of thinking. If you compliment a woman from a place of strength and honesty then you’re fine. Like when they tell guys never to smile. If you a complete beta loser than those “rules” are good to help you get better but then eventually being deterministic is only going to get in your way. Thanks for the comment.
“You should tell them you think she’s attractive ” totally agree That’s the way I am , that’s my true nature . I like to compliment a woman on there appearance as soon as I meet them , can’t help it . Skin , hair , or eyes .not all three at the same time of course . Sometimes I wonder if I’m at a disadvantage by giving such compliments ,I.e. The pedalstool thing or chateu heartiest 10. Commandment rule , never compliment a girl on her looks if your not fucking her yet . Anyway solid piece on thoughts . There’s a Christian mystic I’ve discovered on you tube by the name of nevel Goddard . He’s like motivation speaker from the late fifties early sixtys decade who talks a good game on thoughts and imagination that’s very inspiring . Just thought I’d mention it .and the way this fella interprets the bible is not like most people do in a literal or historic sense , He interprets the stories like they were psychological events or experiences if that makes any sense .later and thanks for the this piece
Will have to check it out, sounds interesting. And yeah the whole complimenting thing comes from a black and white mode of thinking. If you compliment a woman from a place of strength and honesty then you’re fine. Like when they tell guys never to smile. If you a complete beta loser than those “rules” are good to help you get better but then eventually being deterministic is only going to get in your way. Thanks for the comment.