Bars and clubs have gotten a lot of hate lately. Talks about how you can’t pull good girls from clubs (as in hot and good in bed), that night clubs and bars are no longer places to meet women. It’s all bullshit. Bars and clubs are still perfect places to pickup up girls. Granted anywhere there are women is a perfect place to pick up women (but that’s a topic for another time). Don’t let the limited experience/skill/belief of others hold you back. Remember what people mean when they say you can’t.
Nightclubs and bars are great places to find girls to have some fun with. Following the tips outlined here will improve you success with pulling more girls to have some fun with. Granted you could ignore all of these and still pull as it’s not that hard but keep these in mind to maximize your time and chances of success. I personally find bars and nightclubs to be some of the most fun places and a great place to find a girl for fun. If you got game and are a masculine man then you’re going to have the same experience too.
Tip #1 - Smile & Make Eye Contact
I see plenty of guys out at bars who sit in corners with their arms crossed hoping to look…cool? Tough? I’m really not sure but what they end up looking like is anti-social losers. When you go into a bar you want to have a smile plastered onto your face (very easy if you’re having fun) and be making eye contact with every girl that catches your fancy. Now granted this is something that should be done at all times but many people think there are big differences between picking girls up at bars compared to anywhere else (there really isn’t big picture wise).
Want to know the perfect way to “approach a girl” (am I getting my lingo right?). Smile, make eye contact with her, then walk up to her and say “Hi” or “Hey”. Pretty crazy right? Then start talking with her. If you’re a masculine man then sexuality is going to be communicated. Talk to her as man to woman and let your intentions be know. Don’t hide your desire for her like a scared little boy would. Be a man and project it without apology, she’ll love it. Eye contact and touch are the best ways to do this.
Tip #2 - Dress Like A Boss
This is going to vary depending on where you are but you should always aim to be the best dressed one in the room. Now if you’re going to some dusty country bar with a bunch of sexy cowgirls I wouldn’t recommend a suit but nevertheless you should be the best dressed cowboy in the room. Tailor what you wear to the venue but no matter what look your best. There are some style rules that are always going to apply. So for example if you’re going to a upscale bar in Vegas you should be rocking a tailored suit with some nice accessories.
Likewise if you going line dancing in Texas have some nice cowboy boots all shined up, nice jeans, and a good looking flannel type shirt. No matter what you want to look good, better than anyone else. Likewise at a college bar where most people are rocking T-shirts and sneakers wear a polo with some nice leather shoes. Stand out, show some pride in yourself. Most people dress (and act and look but that’s another matter) like bums. Stand out and look like a man that has his shit together. Always be the best dressed one in the room.
Tip #3 - Women Want Sex
Women go to clubs to be picked up by masculine guys and get their brains screwed out. They may rationalize it as wanting to go out with friends or just dance or something else. But the fact of the matter is the majority of girls who are out are looking for good dick. That’s the mentality you should have. I see many guys who think they’re bothering women by talking to them (which reveals a myriad of other issues we have to address but that’s also a topic for another time). They want you to talk to them, then seduce them, then screw their brains out and give them a story to tell all their girlfriends about.
Of course if you show weakness or effeminacy they won’t want this but if you’ve been reading this site for any length of time and follow the above two tips you’re not going to have to worry about this. Women never want weak men, ever. In clubs, bars, or anywhere else. Be confident and assured in yourself. And know that you are doing the woman a favor. The women who go out to bars and clubs are looking for a strong masculine guy who is going to sweep them away. Women want sex, understand that. Understanding that is a key part of having a mindset that’ll make you successful with women.
Summary
So there you have it three simple, easy tips to pull more girls from bars and nightclubs. As far as I can tell bars and nightclubs will always be great places to meet women (along with most other places on earth). There isn’t anything that special about them. Go out, have fun, and pull hotties. Nothing wrong with that and remember gents sleeping with women (including beautiful women) is a natural act, don’t over complicate it! Getting laid is easy not hard.
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-Charles Sledge
