Alright so if you’re like pretty much any other single guy on the face of this earth getting laid more is going to be in your top list of priorities. There are many different theories as to what attracts women to men and a whole host of different systems, philosophies, and other lines of thinking as to what the best way to do this is. And truth be told a whole hell of a lot of them work (after all it’s not rocket science, it’s getting laid). With that being said there are guaranteed ways to increase how much you get laid.
Certain principles that when followed are going to get you in the sack with a lot more women. Getting laid is something that can be very complicated or very simply depending on what you want. Most guys just want to get their dick wet more with girls that wouldn’t make them ashamed and that’s pretty much it. And to get that is really easy. It may be something else sleeping with the most beautiful women but for a guy who just wants to get laid more with some decent girls then this article will give you all you need.
Put Your Best Foot Forward
First things first while looks and style aren’t the end all be all they do give you points in your favor. So might as well take advantage of them. Make sure you are looking your best when you go out. Put some effort into how you look to the world trust me girls will notice. Don’t wear a T-shirt and old jeans actually look nice. Throw on some nice jeans, with leather shoes, and a polo as a minimum. Other nice venues in big cities you’ll want to upgrade even more and wear a suit.
But even if you’re going to the local dive bar look nice. Like I said no old converse and worn out T-shirts. The nice jeans, leather shoes, and polo is the absolute minimum wherever you go. And make sure that they fit nice and look good on you. Buy some nice clothes yourself if you have to, but make sure they fit. Better to have a nice fitting T-shirt than a polo that’s 2 sizes too big and droops on you or one that’s too tight and becomes a belly shirt whenever you raise you arm above your stomach. Make sure to shower, shave, and have a decent haircut.
Just Do It
Alright now what I want you to do is smile and smile all the damn time. Also I want you to make eye contact with all the women at the bar. Smile and make eye contact with every woman you come across. Then I want you to go up and say “Hi” to women you find attractive. Don’t think about how the interaction is going to go, don’t worry about how you’re coming across, don’t worry about if you need an “opener” or some other nonsense. Simply go up and say “Hi” and start talking to women. That’s the only thing you should concern yourself with is saying “Hi”. Simply making the approach shows you have balls and are an attractive man.
Flirt with her and make things physical, if she’s not about it then move on to the next. It’s as simple as that. Here’s the thing don’t sit back and start to overthink things, just take action. Simply by talking to girls you want you’re going to keep the momentum going. Approach and escalate and if it doesn’t work then move on to the next one. You’re going to stand out simply by taking action. Approaching women is going to make you attractive to them. Just keep going until you take one home.
Increase Your Numbers
Like I said it ain’t exactly rocket science. The more girls you talk to and escalate on the more girls you are going to sleep with. It’s as simple as that. It’s a numbers game in many ways. Not that you should focus on this as this causes people to chase certain numbers instead of simply naturally going with the interact they are with. Plus you can always make things work more in your favor, never rely on numbers alone. Simply wanted to point out it’s a direct correlation between the number of girls you approach and escalate on and the number of girls you sleep with.
Look good, smile, make eye contact, approach, escalate, rinse and repeat. This will get you laid more than any complicated theory or advanced algorithm. Like I said getting laid isn’t rocket science, it’s a basic biological function that people vastly over complicate. Follow what I’ve lain out here and you’ll do just fine. You’ll naturally learn to adjust and calibrate as you go. Don’t worry about problems that aren’t there and don’t create problems for yourself that didn’t exist in the first place. Simply take action and things will fall in line.
Summary
Action is what is going to get you the results that you want. Focus on what you can control (the level of action you take) and everything else will fall in line. Don’t worry about the girls potential reaction, just worry about if you are taking action or not. Take enough action and you’ll get the results that you want. That’s really all there is to it. And this applies to a lot more than just getting laid. It applies to business and other facets of life as well. So taking action should be the only thing on your mind, don’t worry about anything else.
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-Charles Sledge
