You’ve probably heard at some point in your life how important your attitude is. How attitude is the number one determining factor in where you end up, how attitude is the one thing you have control over, how life is ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent how you deal with it. I am in agreement with all the above and think that if anything these phrases understate the importance of your attitude.
I’ve written about how to have a great attitude and why having a great attitude is an essential part of being a man. And here today I’m going to talk about how your attitude is an essential part of having a sex life filled with beautiful women. That’s right your attitude or mood matters just as much in having sex with women as it does with getting a promotion, getting closer in a relationship, or just having an overall much better life.
The Importance Of Your Mood
Your mood matters tremendously in relating to women. Women are much more sensitive to a man’s mood than men are to women’s mood. Women are emotional creatures and live in a world of emotions. When you are in a bad mood even if you are attractive and alpha you are still going to prevent women from opening up to you. Likewise when you are in a good mood you are naturally going to draw women to you who also want to be in a good mood.
Remember men are the actors women are the reactors. Of course being in a good mood in and of itself isn’t enough. You also have to follow the basics of being a man and game. Otherwise you’ll have women who want to be around you but only to get the good emotional feelings from you, you’ll end up being the “gay best friend” type. Which I’m quite certain no one reading this wants.
Emotions Transfer
The emotions you have (especially if you are a strong man) transfer to those around you. If you are in a good mood and having a good time a woman can sense this and wants to be a part of this. This is key to picking up women at clubs and bars. Get in a good mood and your results are going to shoot up ten fold. You could have great game and be attractive but if you are in a low energy bad mood your going to be shooting yourself in the foot every time you go out.
You mood matters greatly. Which is why I recommend that when you go out you focus on yourself and on having a good time. That way your mood is going to automatically transfer to those around you which is naturally going to draw women into your frame. The frame of having a good time. Combine that with being masculine and having decent game and your not going to have to worry about going home alone again.
Girls Just Want To Have Fun
Always remember this. Women are all addicted. They are all addicted to good emotions and they are going to go wherever they can get their fix. Technically their addicted to emotions bad or good but good is going to win out in the end. Women are emotional creatures living in emotional worlds. Hence the effectiveness of things like emotional spiking and teasing.
Women are reactive by nature they are going to react to the dominant emotion that you are feeling. They are going to give you space if you are angry, brooding, or in a negative mood. Likewise they are going to be drawn towards a guy who is laughing, smiling, and having a good time.
Summary
Next time you are going out be sure to get in a good mood before doing so. It might help to have a routine that you do every time or maybe it’ll help to have a good wingman you can rely on to get you in state. Point is, do what you have to do to get the good emotions flowing. If that means having a drink then have a drink. If it means laughing then laugh. As a matter of fact if you don’t have a wingman smiling and laughing may be the best way to get you in state. You may feel a little weird smiling and laughing at nothing but eventually the emotions will catch on and it’ll make for a much better night out.
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-Charles Sledge
I’d like discuss something about some authenic ( not those PUA nonsense ) dating manuals that I’ve been reading. Till now I’ve read books by W. Anton and Mark Manson and recently I’ve been reading Corey Wayne’s “How to Be a 3% Men”. One thing I’ve noticed is that they have different and sometimes contradictory guidelines regarding dating, courting and attracting women. But one thing they emphasized is that one has to be confident and non-needy. That’s not my main problem. The problem arises on how can reconcile the techniques taught by those different writers ? How can I be assured that which technique would lead to success ?
Ultimately there is more than one way to skin a cat. Hell even a clown like mystery gets more girls than the average guy. What I do for example when reading Gary Halbert, Dan Kennedy, Gene Schwartz, and other copywriting greats is I look for the similarities first and foremost. Stuff they all agree on and then for the stuff they don’t I do whatever matches up best with my personality because that is likely where the disagreements arose from different personalities. I’m sure one of the three stood out to you most and I would follow that one. Action is going to help clear things up more than anything.