Women are controlled and led by their emotions, there is no doubting or disputing this. Sure many men and women would like to think otherwise and think that women are just as logical and deductive as men but even the most career oriented bitchy Feminist is at the end of the day still a woman. Therefore she still has the biology of a woman and will respond to things in a womanly way, no matter how hard she tries to suppress her own biology. It’s inevitable.
Women love feeling emotions and when a guy (especially a masculine guy) can spike her emotions she’ll be his. One of the key tenets of what we call game is emotional spiking. Meaning making a woman feel strong emotions. So a woman goes from being bored and emotionless to all of the sudden responding strongly to something that you have said or done. This is also know as teasing or busting her chops. And it’s a fundamental part of getting laid a lot.
Emotional Tension
Like I said above women love feeling strong emotions, they are after all emotional creatures. They are led and swayed by their emotions the same way that a man can be led and swayed by logical and reason or a nice ass. When you do things that cause emotional spiking with a women such as busting her chops (with a smile on your face) she is going to feel things in response to that. This is going to create emotional tension.
The great thing about emotion tension is that it is tension and tension translates into other things. For example when a woman says she likes a certain band or whatever are you respond with “They suck” with a big smile on your face she is going to respond positively. She is used to the boring guy agreeing with her and nodding his head as he gets to know her. Here you do something very different from that. Emotion tension will translate into sexual tension if you are a masculine man. So be sure to cause emotional tension by using emotional spiking.
Tease Her Playfully
You’ve probably heard before to tease women playfully or to treat her like a bratty little sister. Pretty much means to bust her chops or to cause emotional spiking. You don’t let her get away with anything and are poking her with your words to get a reaction. The key is to “insult” her while having a big smile or your face. Put another way to put her down but in a good natured way.
A key in this is that you’re not doing it to hurt her, your doing it to cause emotional spiking. You’re doing it to tease and play with her in a fun way. You’re not trying to hurt her. The words you say are going to come out mean but your intention will be playful. And intentions mean a hell of a lot more than words.
For example say your buddy throws a bucket of cold water on you in the shower and you tell him your going to kill him. Obviously you’re not going to actually kill him as the words don’t matter much but the meaning behind the words do. So for example if she asks if she looks hot in her dress and you point your finger down your throat like you’re going to puke but then smile she’s going to call you an ass (but with a giant smile on her face).
When To Use
This works on the vast majority of women but there are some who will not respond well to it. For example traditional feminine women sometimes will get hurt as they genuinely like you and are confused by it. Even if you make it clear you are kidding (which they will then be okay with) probably not best to continue busting their chops as you would with other women. This works like a charm on bitchy Western women. While it has varying effectiveness on sweet traditional girls. Genuine compliments can work on girls who have not been corrupted by Western society. Again not saying you can’t tease them just that to do so less and make sure to calibrate.
It seems to be the more masculinized a woman is as in demeanor because you wouldn’t hit on a girl with masculine looks (I hope). The better she responds to being teased, especially the stronger you do it. Don’t get me wrong all girls want to be teased to some extent and all girls want to feel emotions, I’m just talking relative here. Like someone one said women communicate by compliments and men by insults. These bitchy women at the club try to be men in their minds (but women in their bodies) and therefore respond better to this form of communication. While the sheltered rural girl (who is also smoking hot) is going to be confused or a bit offended if you started off busting her chops. Because she is feminine in both mind and body. Not saying she’ll respond to doting because no women does just saying she’ll respond differently to teasing. Food for thought.
Another thing is that the hottest girls usually have lower opinions of themselves than girls in the middle tiers. For example your typical nine or ten is going to get far less male attention than your typical six or seven. At least directly. And being women these nines and tens are going to think that there is something wrong with them. While the six and sevens are going to bask in the attention of thirsty males boosting their ego. Raising their own far out of proportional while the nine and tens are going to not get much male attention dropping theirs out of proportion as well.
Summary
The point is to utilize emotional spiking. When you spike her emotions and make her feel either positive or negative emotions. She’s going to enjoy it. Like I said women are emotional creatures. She would rather have a guy who makes her feel bad than have a guy who makes her feel nothing. Make her feel a range of emotions and she will love you for it. Do this in addition to being masculine and you’ll never have any women trouble again.
Make her feel things. Frustrate her and throw her the occasional compliment just to throw her off. When you see a woman walk up to her and playfully begin teasing her. Have a great attitude and a smile on your face, start off busting her chops. It will make you stand out and arouse her emotions instantly. Make fun of something is doing, wearing, or saying but again with a huge smile on your face. Tease her playfully.
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