And no this isn’t a mind trick you use on a woman but rather one you use on yourself. Seduction is just as much a mind game as anything else, your mind that is. Meaning that it’s much more important to get what’s on the inside right then what’s on the outside to have the success with women that you want. You don’t need to have whatever it is you think you need to have before you can start going after the women you really want. The whole you have to be in shape to get in shape women is all bullshit. Women are attracted to men by internal traits that they exhibit through their behavior while men are attracted women their external traits that they exhibit through their body.
It doesn’t work the same for men as it does for women which is why it confuses many men when the skinny guy who hasn’t seen the inside of a gym ever is banging girls he’s been working on the gym for years to get while he has nothing to show for it. If you have a dick then you can already sleep with the women that you want if you follow what’s outlined here. Not that outside things don’t help because they do but they shouldn’t what you focus on. Get in shape for your own health and get rich for your own life, don’t do either to get women as there are much more effective and time saving paths.
You’re Already Enough
First and foremost you’re already enough for any woman. Simply by the fact that you are a man you are enough for any woman. I don’t care if you live in your parents basement and are skinny beautiful women will still sleep with you. I’ve seen men having nothing going for them but still sleeping with beautiful woman simply because they had the mindset that they were enough and therefore they were. Women don’t work like men. If a fat chick went around thinking “I am enough” it wouldn’t do anything to raise her attractiveness or get the sex life she wants. Mind is the master for men.
Now this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t develop your life, you absolutely should. But do it for yourself not to sleep with beautiful women. You already have everything you need for that. Beautiful women will sleep with ugly losers from time to time just because they’re there and they put themselves out there. Even the most dedicated bodybuilder has missed a day of training here and there, well it’s the same with beautiful women. Every one of them has had that night when they just wanted to get laid and did even if it wasn’t their “ideal choice”.
Am I X Enough?
One of the worst things I’ve seen that messes guys up with women is using the whole 1-10 scale. Not judging women by it which is whatever but matching themselves up with the women. First off as I said above attraction for women is different than attraction for men. They think “Oh I am guy 7 and therefore can sleep with women 7’s and above”. This is the dumbest bullshit ever for a variety of reasons (too many to list here). Remember you are already more than enough. You have to really get this drilled down deep. You are a man and are therefore more than enough for any woman.
You don’t have to be more X. You don’t have to be what you define as attractive. I know this is going to be hard for many to get because of how much effort they put into getting girls through non-direct means. Getting in shape, dressing better, getting status, and everything else. While those things help if your only goal is to get women they are not the best use of your time. Do those things for yourself. To get women you are more than enough. You are male they are female. That’s all you need to sleep with the most beautiful women. You don’t need anything outside of yourself.
Action Is King
In life and in seduction. Simply by approaching a woman and showing your interest to her you are going to be in the top ten percent of men because of your boldness and confidence. I don’t care how you look. And guess what showing this boldness and confidence is going to cause massive amounts of attraction in the woman, so much so that she may even get nervous and walk away. Like if a smoking hot chick walked up and started talking to the average guy he wouldn’t know what to do with himself. It’s the same with women.
Others may start testing you, even give you a look of sheer horror. Doesn’t matter women react in different ways (and illogically) to being approached. She could be crazy attracted by walk away saying “you’re gross” but want you badly. I know you’re saying “But that doesn’t make any sense Sledge” and you’re right. But since when the hell have women made sense in a logical way??? Never that’s when. If you approach her she’s attracted to you. Simply by approaching her you become the most high value man and more high value than her. It’s as simple as that. Just hold the frame and she’ll be yours.
Summary
Approaching makes you the hot chick and the girl the nervous guy. Remember it doesn’t matter what she says or does, simply hold the frame and she’ll be yours. She’ll thank you later. Remember she’s not going to act rationally just be the man and everything falls into place. Simply take the action and you’ll be ahead of the vast majority of guys out there. Women are attracted to men through their actions and frame. Don’t forget this and use it to your advantage. Also always realize you are already more than enough for any woman.
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-Charles Sledge
