Seduction can seemingly be a complicated process. But the fact of the matter is it’s actually pretty simple and easy. First off to put it lightly there are more than one way to skin a cat. Meaning that there are many different methods, principles, and such that work. Sure they may vary in their effectiveness overall and some will be better for different personality types than others but at the end of the day a good portion of them work. It isn’t rocket science it’s putting your dick in a girl. The most basic of biological needs.
With that being said there are some principles that apply across all methods and that you should be aware of. This isn’t a post about them (this is) but just something you should be aware of. I’ve written about a couple of different methods myself such as spiking a woman’s emotions, being a dominant masculine man, and being a bad boy. And truth be told all work and all work well and they work even better when you know how to combine them all for maximal effectiveness (but that’s not something to worry about right now). In this article I’m going to talk about another way in which you can start getting more ass than a toilet seat.
The Battle Of Frames
First off realize that everything have to do with attraction is based in biology. And that our biology is based in living in tribal times when the threat of getting eaten or killed by another tribe was the number one thing occupying our minds. Anything that would add to this survival is going to cause attraction. When you look at it like that is simplifies all of this greatly. Women being the weaker of the two species are even more aware of this than men. Not consciously obviously but subconsciously. Hence shit tests and the like. One requirement of seduction is that the man have the stronger frame than the woman.
Frame is incredibly important in seduction (and in life). Women naturally have weak frames and value men with strong ones to make up for their weakness. A strong frame is more important than looks, money, or whatever else you are attaching your self worth to. She wants to submit to you and she can’t if you don’t have a more dominant frame than her. Look at it this way in order for her to become attracted to you you have to be stronger then her and this all starts with having the stronger frame. It’s the foundation upon which everything else is built.
You Are Dominant
You need to have the “I am dominant” frame. Not domineering but dominant. Domineering comes from being a try hard and weakness while dominance comes from masculinity and strength. You have to be strong, calm, and collected in the face of adversity. This includes when she tests you to see if you are an attractive man who she’ll want to have sex with. If you cower before a girl with a nice ass who tells you to go away what use are you going to be when a sabertooth tiger attacks the camp? Remember attraction is a primal/biological function.
As long as you have a stronger frame than the woman you are going to be good. You don’t have to be perfect, just enough. And you already are enough for any girl out there. I don’t say that as some “woo woo” bullshit but as a fact of reality. You’re a man, you’re already enough. Your frame must dominate hers from attraction (and sex) to occur. Meaning you can’t give in to pressure from her, her friends, or anything around you. You should completely ignore any social pressure, the more pressure you can withstand without flinching the stronger you prove yourself to be and therefore the more attracted she is going to be to you.
Never Fazed
If you’re not man enough to dominate a pretty girls frame with your own then you have such a weak frame she’ll never be attracted. This includes her ignoring you at first, telling you to go away, telling you you’re too X, and so on and so forth. So what, some chick is telling you things you’re a man why the hell would you listen? Have balls and just keep doing what you’re doing. When you give in you prove you’re a pussy and the woman will lose all attraction to you. Likewise the more resistance she throws your way that doesn’t faze you and you overcome the hotter she’s going to get for you.
Just stay in there, don’t be fazed, and keep doing what you do. Eventually she’ll realize you are actually a man with balls who has a strong frame (like finding a diamond in a coal mine for her) and her frame will give in to yours and she’ll want you to screw her brains out all night long. A win win for everyone around. But you never get here if you give in to her pressure, you never get here is you’re weak. Think about it from a biological standpoint. If your too weak to stand your ground against a girl who is no threat to you what use are you against real threats like invaders and giant predators?
Summary
Be a man with balls and women will fall at your feet. You have to stay in there, stop turning away at the slightest sign of resistance or pressure against you. Be like a mountain when the winds blow against it. No matter how hard the winds blow it’s not going to do shit the mountain. Don’t get fazed by some girl no matter how hot she is. If you’re too weak to stand against a girl you’re going to get killed in the real world. Look your ancestors wouldn’t take crap from invading hordes or giant predators and you’re going to take crap from a girl? Of course not, stand your ground, have the stronger frame, and you’ll be getting more ass than a toilet seat.
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-Charles Sledge
