It’s not secret that the harsh reality of hypergamy has ruined more than a few males lives. Hypergamy is put shortly a woman’s desire to have the highest quality man that she can. A common example is a woman cheating on her dedicated beta husband of twenty years whom she has two kids with for a random biker she met at the bar. Because the biker was more masculine and dominant and therefore of higher value than her loyal beta husband.
Hypergamy has created plenty of angry, hateful, males. Who upon discovering the reality of women became bitter and angry because they found that they had been lied too and their illusion was shattered. Usually by finding another man in their girl. This experience can certainly be harsh and a certain period of anger is natural. However there comes a time when a man has to dust himself off and soldier on becoming better and stronger.
Biology Isn’t Fair
Unfortunately most males go on looking for some sort of fairness from the world. They’ve been burnt where is their recompense? This cannot be said enough but there is no recompense. There is no fairness in the world, there is simply reality. This isn’t something to whine and cry about (which real men never do) but rather something to understand and then operate from this new understanding. Hypergamy and female nature simply are.
Once you understand it then you can use it too your advantage. But you have to let go of your fantasies first. There is no one loyal woman just waiting for you. Women want the top alpha guys and the beta settle for the scraps, that’s reality. There is no room in the middle anymore like there was in the 50’s. Just like the middle class will be gone in 25 years so will the sexual middle class so to speak. You’ll either be a 1% or a loser, those are the choices.
Making Hypergamy Work In Your Favor
Something many males, especially the angry bitter ones (which MGTOW and the red pill have plenty of unfortunately) never understand that once you raise your rank on the sexual pyramid that all those things that worked against them before now work for them. Now women (even “committed” married ones) will seek them out for sex and adventure. The tables have turned once you go from beta to alpha. Just like when you go from middle class to upper class.
You become a man instead of a whipping boy. Look self-development isn’t a choice. Either learn to fight or don’t cry when the wolves of reality tear you to shreds. I know what you’re thinking “but this isn’t fair” “But my parents/teachers/preachers/politicians/other liars & idiots told me otherwise”. Look man, this is reality. And the thing about reality is you can either embrace it and live a successful life or ignore it and get shafted because of that ignorance. Ignorance is not bliss but knowledge is power.
Grow Everyday
So in order to get hypergamy to work for you, you have to go from beta to alpha, from loser to winner, from dud to stud. This is going to require you getting your shit together and working on yourself until you reach that rank. This is going to require you to master the basic skills of manhood. In particular it is going to require you to route out any weakness that you may have as well as embracing your dominance. This type of growth is accomplished just like any other kind of growth.
Hypergamy can be made to work in your favor when you rise above the level of average and to that of the successful. You are going to have to grow and grow fast. It’ll be hard but it will be worth it. As males we can either rise and soar like the eagle or we will be kicked to wayside and be trodden upon by society. There is no middle on the road option and when you think there is you are simply doing yourself a disservice by ignoring reality.
Summary
Seek knowledge and take action. That is how growth happens. If you haven’t read books about the nature of women then do so and then test your new found knowledge out in the world. You’ll be pleasantly surprised how well things work once you understand the game and have it working in your favor. The road is hard but the reward is more than worth it. Develop yourself and before you know it hypergamy will be working in your favor.
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-Charles Sledge
