3 Traits To Look For In A Wife

If one day you choose to take a wife to have children it’ll be one of the most important decisions that you ever make in your life. First and foremost realize that the vast majority of women are not worth marrying, at least not worth marrying for anyone with standards. And that man as a whole are better off free. Marriage is all advantage for the woman and majorly disadvantage to the man. Who you choose as your wife is an area where you cannot afford to compromise and where there is no such thing as good enough.

You are better off single then you are marrying a woman that you have any doubts about. Any at all. Women will lie, cover up, and change to get married so they can have that security and have no problem suckering a man in. That’s why before you get married you must have experience with women. So you know how to handle them, their tricks, and their nature. Going in blind in marriage will get you killed. There is a deadly serious issue and one you cannot afford to mess up on. With that said it’s only natural to want to continue your bloodline and have sons and marriage is the only way to do so. So with that disclaimer out of the way let’s get down to some traits to look for in a wife.

Trait #1 - Submissiveness

This doesn’t mean that she is a door mat but rather she desires to serve you and take care of you. She doesn’t consider it wrong or bad to look after her man and actually sees it as her duty. She rejects the cancerous poisons of modern women and knows that she wants to be married to a man she can respect. Generally she’ll have a good relationship with a strong father. And have a traditional mother. She will have interacted with traditional (i.e. healthy) gender roles throughout her life and expect the same from her marriage.

When you ask her to do something she does it. When you need help she helps you. She supports you even if you don’t ask for it. She has your back and puts you before herself. She thinks that a woman’s place is by her man’s side. Women with this type of mindset and mentality are getting rarer and rarer. She also isn’t going to be loud, bossy and opinionated but rather keep things to herself as preserving overall harmony is more important to her then forcing her will.

Trait #2 - Femininity

Women who are feminine are women who have embraced their nature and enjoy being women. A feminine women is the opposite of a feminist who are against nature, health, man, reason, and God. She likes to be a girl. She isn’t into guns and fighting and masculine stuff but rather focuses on nurturing and being feminine. A job means nothing to her, her focus in on you and on family. She thinks that a career is for men and that it’s weird and unnatural for a woman to pursue a career, especially over being a good wife and mother.

I should also note that while looking feminine is certainly important there is a difference between women who look feminine and act feminine. A woman could have nice swaying hips, a wasp like waist, and full lips but not be feminine. There is some correlation between looks and attitude generally but just because she can bat her pretty eyelashes does not mean she’s feminine. At least not the kind of femininity I’m talking about here which is important for a healthy long term relationship. Looks can be deceiving, never forget this.

Trait #3 - Humble

A woman that you’re looking for a long term relationship with should be humble. She should put you first and not seek attention. For example talk shows host (whether on FOX or NBC, they’re all the same) and instagram models are perfect examples of women who always want to be in the spot light and are attention whores. Don’t get me wrong all women want attention (at least from you) to some extent but there is a difference from wanting attention from a spouse and wanting attention from every swinging dick in the country. If she’s heavily into social media then she’s not worth your time.

Also just to throw this in there no smokers and no tattoos. She should consider you higher then her. Not because you berate or abuse but because she naturally sees you that way. That type of girl is one of the few that is worth taking care of and watching over. You should be her king. She should think of your happiness and care more than she thinks of her own. She should be self-sacrificing as well. She should also be obedient to your word. A woman who doesn’t fit this role isn’t worth your care. It’s not your duty to care for women that aren’t worth it.

Summary

At the beginning of this article I warned you about all the pitfalls of marriage and how you need to strongly vet any women before you even consider her for marriage and that you’re better off single and free then with a woman you have even one single doubt about. Now with that being said there are also those who will tell you that marriage never works, all women are evil lying sluts, and that all Western women are broken, etc. While Western women if they follow Western society are certainly not worth it there are still plenty of marriageable women in every society and land.

Quality attracts quality. There are good women worth marrying in New York City sure not as many as there are other places but my point is that to attract quality you have to be quality. The top man will find the right woman wherever he is. There are women worth marrying but you have to be a masculine men to get them. There are feminine, loyal, humble, traditional, marriageable women out there and if you look at sheer numbers plenty of them. When the times comes to start a family keep these traits in mind when choosing a mate.

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-Charles Sledge