Alright so you know what shit tests are and how to handle them. Shit tests are tests that women throw at you to see if you are strong or if you’ll bend to their frame and prove your weakness. Women throw out shit tests because the number one thing that matters to a woman in mating matters is the strength of her man. Hence shit tests are an evolutionary adaptation that women do without even knowing it so that they don’t end up with a weak mate who can’t protect them or their offspring.
Most males unfortunately don’t test the women they are with or have any prerequisites other than that they have a working vagina they can use from time to time. Pretty sad when you sit back and think about it. Most males will trade their dignity for a shot at some cheap pussy. Pathetic but true. Not to mention this strategy always backfires on them as it is the opposite of what attracts women to men. Point is most males have no standards when it comes to the woman that they are with.
Standards
A high value man has high standards. He has high standards for himself, for his women, and for those all around him. While no male should rush into getting married as most marriages in the West are jokes and a trap, that doesn’t mean that I think men should get married at all. As a matter of fact I think it’s naturally to want to have a family and lineage of your own at some point. There are things you need to handle first but eventually that point in your life will come.
I wouldn’t recommend it before your thirties and before you’ve had all the fun with women that you want but there comes a time when for some men it is worth it. And when that time comes it’s not something that you just rush in to because you feel like it. You’re always better off staying single then going into a relationship that you have any doubts about. Most males don’t vet the women they end up with they settle down because it’s some easy access pussy and they get screwed because of it. It would be like a woman settling down with a weak male and then getting killed because of it back in cave man times.
Character Tests
What men who are the period in their lives when they think it’s time to settle down is ruthlessly screen any woman that they think are worthy of being their wife and mother of their children. Like women throw shit tests at men, men who are looking to settle down should throw character tests at women. This doesn’t mean setting up elaborate tests to see if she cracks but rather to keep an eye on her character and her actions. Just because she is feminine and good looking does not mean she’ll make a good wife. And as a matter of fact the vast majority of women let their beauty corrupt them completely.
This means seeing how she acts in certain situations. Does she enjoyed being flirted with? Dump her. Does she lie about little things? Dump her. And things of that nature. You have to be ruthless and have enough experience with women that one women isn’t going to blind you to the obvious. Sleeping with beautiful women is the easy part, finding a woman worthy of marriage is the hard part. And be comfortable with the fact that there may not be a woman out there worth marrying for you. Better to be single.
Types Of Women
Ultimately very few women are worth marrying. You have to be an expert at understanding women, reading character, and life experience to find one worth it. But they are out there. Understand that most women are not worth a long term relationship of any kind. This isn’t to be cruel or mean but to state facts and prevent males from getting screwed over. Very few women are worth marrying and you have to be an expert judge of character and reading people to find them. Women are masters of disguise and lies.
This isn’t to say that there isn’t good ones simply to state facts again. You have to be aware of all the tricks that women can pull as well as be aware of their nature and biology. Understanding most of this stuff turns guys off marriage and rightfully so. Yet nevertheless like I’ve stated at a certain time for certain men it’s still worth it. Most guys are better off single but not all guys. It’s a personal choice that you will have to make and should never make lightly.
Summary
You absolutely positively must have lots of experience with women before marring one. Going into marriage blind is like going into battle blind. You’ll get screwed from so many different directions you won’t even know what’s happening. One moment you’ll be walking peacefully and the next hell will be erupting all around you. The most important thing for a woman is a man’s strength. The most important thing for a long term relationship for a man is his woman’s character. Vet and test her before ever considering settling down and don’t forget looks can be deceiving. She is guilty until proven innocent.
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-Charles Sledge
