Much ink has been spilled in regards to taking women off the pedestal that society would have you place them on and for good reason. Women are worshiped in our society from both the left and the right. Whether it is the Feminist’s worldview or the typical cuckservative/Judeo-Christian both hold women as being higher than man. While I could give two shits what the majority of society is doing I bring this up so that you the reader can be aware of things going on in your world and life.
You can tell a lot by the phrases that a society uses. The idioms that are used in a society often reflects various aspects of that society. For example the idiom “The grass is always greener on the other side” probably didn’t originate from people living in the arctic. A pretty obvious example but you get the point. One idiom that is common in America and perhaps other parts of the Western world is the phrase “getting lucky”
Getting Lucky
At one time I really wouldn’t have thought much about this phrase, doesn’t seem to be particularly insightful does it? Though it may be something we never think about there are larger implications behind the phrase. Getting lucky means when a guy has sex with a woman. Implying that for a woman to have sex with a man the man has to be lucky. I’m guessing that the men who came up with this saying didn’t get laid very much.
Those of us who have been around the block know that getting laid has absolutely nothing to do with luck. Beta men often view sex as this thing that happens when the stars align and the divine women graces them with their blessing of sex. He is like a worshiper kissing the feet of a statue. Unfortunately this represents most men when it comes to wanting sex from women and this phrase reflects that.
Reframe
It’s funny when I heard this phrase recently I automatically assumed that it was meant to be that a woman was lucky to have sex with me. The males I was with were shocked that I looked at it this way (as that is cocky/arrogant or whatever other word they use to help themselves sleep at night…alone). I explained to them that in my eyes the woman is getting more of the interaction than me. She’s getting attention and good sex from a virile, dominant male who has worked day and night to become the man he is today. Yet nevertheless this had no affect on them.
This is the mindset that you should take. A woman is lucky when you interact with her, a woman is very lucky when you have sex with her. At least that is how I see it. Most see this as being cocky or (insert other negative shaming term here) but when you think about it, it is the truth. Why men have this idea that women having sex with them is doing them a favor is beyond me.
You’re the Prize
Modern males debase themselves at every turn and it’s disgusting. And there is no place that the debase themselves more than in relation to women. We’ve all seen husbands moderate what they say because they “don’t want to sleep on the couch” or how their woman won’t have sex with them because they “have a headache” or “insert other bullshit excuse here”. Males act as if this is natural as if this way of life isn’t abhorrently wrong.
As a man you are the prize. Again you are the prize. Treat yourself as such. A woman will only disrespect you if you allow her. I cannot even comprehend a woman telling me to sleep on the couch, it’s so ridiculous it’s beyond my comprehension. And if I was married to a woman and she wouldn’t have sex then I wouldn’t be married to her any more. Granted because I hold these attitudes I will never run into either situation but you see the point I am trying to make.
Remember
Don’t ever debase yourself especially not for a woman. It is dishonorable and disrespectful to your manhood and your name. Not to mention it will repel women like nothing else. Our cultures view of men and women is sick, disgusting, and unhealthy. Don’t become a part of it, separate yourself from the cancer. When I have sex with a woman the only one who is “getting lucky” is the woman. Look society can hold whatever views they wish and come up with whatever phrases they wish, but it is your choice whether you believe in them or not. Your life is your choice and your responsibility.
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-Charles Sledge
