Who is the most important person in your life? Who is the person who matters the most to you? Who is it that has the biggest impact on your life? I guess those are a bit of trick questions because the answer to all of them should be yourself. You are the center of your own universe. You are the person who matters most in your life. Because of this you should always put yourself first. It is the only way to live a successful life and have the life of your desires.
This is something that bad boys innately understand. Usually they have put themselves first since they were young as it made the most sense and kept at it since then. They were never indoctrinated with false ideas of putting others first or becoming a doormat for others as the highest life goal as many ideologies and religions do. They know that they must come first in their life at all times. This doesn’t mean they’re a jerk to others simply that they put themselves first.
You Come First
You come first. Before everyone else in your life and that you will ever meet you come first. There is a name for an organism that doesn’t take care of it’s own self first and that is extinct. In our world society wants you to be a slave to them as well as others would be more than happy to use and abuse you. However this use and abuse can only take place if you let it take place. The man who puts himself first never has to worry about anyone trying to make him their slave as they know it is impossible. Putting yourself first is the only logical option for living a full life.
While there is nothing wrong with taking in the needs and wants of others into consideration at the end of the day you must always do what is best for you and you alone. Sacrificing yourself for others won’t will you any awards but it will make you nice fodder for whoever feels like having their way with you. Sacrificing yourself for others or putting others first isn’t noble, it’s stupid.
The “Noble” Lie
Society, religion, and others (pretty much anyone who wants to take advantage of you) all tell you that sacrificing yourself for them or their organization is the “noble” or “moral” or “insert other manipulative mechanism here”. Of course they tell you this they tell you this because then you will gladly be a dumb slave, a sap for their schemes. The man who puts himself first is called selfish when in reality he is only being logical. Man was made to put himself first. When he puts others first the natural order is upset and things go badly.
Man should unapolgetically put himself first. Don’t be manipulated to think otherwise. Anyone who says that you shouldn’t put yourself first is actively working against you and your best interests and should be treated as such. This obviously doesn’t mean go around treating everyone like dirt as that isn’t putting yourself first but rather just putting others down. You can treat others fine as long as you treat yourself even better.
Invest In Yourself
Though it may not seem like it as we tend to think of investments in financial terms the bad boy is always investing in his best prospect…in himself. He doesn’t spend time doing things for others unless he is also benefiting from it. He can’t be shamed by others into doing what they want, he is an outlaw who plays by his own rules. Like men should. He comes first and invests in himself.
Sacrificing yourself for others will never bring fulfillment. Sure others will pretend like what you are doing is noble but in reality all they are doing is taking advantage of your stupidity. Never sacrifice yourself for other people. You are the most important person in your life and should treat yourself as such. You are the center of your own universe as others are the center of theirs.
Summary
Bad boys know that putting themselves first is the only rational way to live. It has nothing to do with putting down others but rather only to do with building one’s self up. You don’t have to treat others like crap as long as you treat yourself like gold. Don’t put the needs, wants, and/or desires of others above your own, ever. If you married and have a family you still come first. You can still care for your friends, family, and whoever you want so long as you put yourself first.
Don’t be a sucker, rather be a man. Be a good bad boy and put yourself first in all that you do. Give your needs, wants, and desires the consideration that they deserve. Others may be against this but so what? You live for yourself not for others and plus slave masters tend to get angry when their slaves break their chains. Invest in yourself you are after all your own best investment. Don’t be an idiot be a good bad boy and put yourself first.
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-Charles Sledge
