Nothing Get’s Women Hotter Than Doing These Two Things

Ask most men or God forbid women what makes women/them hot and bothered and you’ll get a variety of answers. Ninety nine percent of which are completely ass backwards wrong. For starts the vast majority of men aren’t very successful with women. The vast majority of men aren’t having the sex they want with the women they want. If they are having sex at all it’s with whatever woman that they settled for as they believed (as society wants them to) that sex is something that women give to men and that men are “lucky” to get it.

These men are men at the bottom of the sexual pyramid, the beta or sometimes even omega males. Women are no better and often worse. Ask them what gets women hot and bothered and they will tell you the complete opposite of what gets them hot and bothered. Whether this is done purposely or women are just that oblivious (my money’s on the latter) matters little. Listening to a woman’s advice on women is a guaranteed way to never get laid.

For men who want to actually have success with women their best bet is going against what society says will get them women and what women say will get them women. Namely going against be the nice guy, do everything she wants, lavish her with praise, money, and devotion, etc. Instead be a man and the women will fall at your feet. Part of being a man is doing the two things listed below.

Not Taking Their Shit

Women have been conditioned by society and the media that men are going to take their shit. That they can say and do whatever they want and that men should sit there with a smile and take it. Never mind that it turns them off like a hairy obese women turns off a man but women are much more prone to going alone with society (or anyone’s) B.S. then men are. When you don’t take crap from a woman not only is she going to be shocked in a good way but also turned on like never before. Imagine if you walked up a woman in bent over like an old lady in a hooded robe only for her to stand up turn around discard to robe and be a smoking hot twenty year old blonde with a 1.6 hip to waist ratio. That’s what happens to women when you don’t take their shit.

Now don’t get me wrong at first they will test you as they can’t believe what they’ve found. Imagine if you woke up one morning to a pile of gold bricks by your bed. You’d be skeptical or the very least confused. Before telling your boss to shove it you’d test out that gold and make sure it was real. Same with women when they find a man that actually causes attraction in them and a lot of it. They’re so used to lame placating girly males (including good looking and rich men) who they want to have some sort of feelings for (other than disgust) but they can’t. Then you come along and turn them on like a dying fire getting gasoline poured onto it. All from something as simple as not taking their shit.

Calling Them Out On Their Shit

Not taking their shit will wow them enough, if you add it into calling them out on their shit and they will love you for eternity. You see women often act bratty and out of hand because they want to see if there is a man who is actually a man out there and will call them out on it. They want a man who will put them in their place. I’ve had women specifically try me just because they knew that I wouldn’t tolerate it and would say something. I would call them out on it and they loved it.

Women know they are full of shit. If anything get frustrated that men don’t know this. Now no woman is ever going to come out and say “I and all women are full of shit” just like no woman is ever going to come out and say “Hey me and the rest of women prefer assholes who hump and dump us over nice guys who wine and dine us”. It just isn’t going to happen. It’d kill the fun. Just like it doesn’t count if a woman has to tell a man to be dominate, she just wants him to get it. If she had to tell him, by nature of her telling him to be dominant he wouldn’t be dominant because he’d just be doing what she said to do. Not doing something organically. Women are desperate for real men. They want you to be a man and call them out on their shit, more than you want them to stop acting a certain way. Do yourselves both a favor and call them out.

Summary

Now a caveat is this all must be done from a place of simply doing it because you want to. What I mean is, if a woman annoys you you don’t lash out emotionally at her like a little boy. You stay unemotional like a rock and simply state facts. You don’t give in to her hysterics or annoying behavior or whatever, you maintain the frame. And you don’t get all whiny and complain either. Men never whine or complain, they solve problems and get shit done. Simply call her out and don’t take shit.

Do these two things and you will be catapulted into the top echelon of men. Women will want you and men will respect you. Which are two things that naturally happen when you embrace your masculinity and reclaim your balls. You will be a man among boys. A king among paupers. You will stand out in this world like a light in the middle of the darkness. So remember don’t take women’s shit and call them out on their shit. They’ll thank you for it (often with sex) and more importantly you will be fulfilling your role as a man by embracing your masculinity.

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-Charles Sledge