Many men obsess over being good in the bedroom. Look at the average men’s magazine. In between ads of expensive cars and overpriced clothing is dispersed books worth of sex advice. If you gauged a men’s interest based off of the typical men’s magazine you would think buying clothes, smelling good, and pleasing women are the number one things. Which says something in and of itself, namely that these magazines seem to want to turn men into women more than anything. From the high school locker room to the after hours at bars men talk about how to better please women.
While male sexuality is demonized and hated when it comes to pleasing women this is the one place where it suddenly becomes okay and most males are more than happy to scramble to the altar to better learn how to please their goddess. Most of these males seem to think that their sole goal in life is to be an effective dildo for a woman. That being good in bed will make them good enough for women. This world view is wrong is many ways, which I am aim to demonstrate as well as indicative of the values of our culture and society. When a guys eyes light up on how to please a woman in the rare chance that if he pleases her enough she will return to favor, something needs to change. For starts men need to reclaim their balls. Men should live for himself not for women. Let me explain.
The Desire To Please
While obviously there is nothing wrong with giving pleasure to women in and of itself. I’m not saying that, and as a matter of fact when you become a man and embrace your dominance you’ll give women more pleasure than any of these trained dildos reading the average man’s magazine. But that’s not the point. You don’t embrace your masculinity to please women, you do so to be a man. The fact that women will fall at your feet is at best a nice side effect. The purpose of masculinity is not to please women, despite what society, the media, your teacher, your mother, your pastor, and just about everyone will tell you.
The desire to please women is not natural, it is something unhealthy that society (among other things) has ingrained into you. You have been brainwashed to be a good slave. A good little boy who follows all the rules and checks all the right boxes. Worshiping women being one of them and your masculinity being inherently evil another one. The men’s magazines being so politically correct play into this, hence the constant articles on pleasing women (as well as buying corporations products).
You’re Already More Than Enough
Many men have it ingrained in them that women are somehow inherently better than they are. That they are evil dumb men and women are glorious higher creatures compared to them. Nothing could be further from the truth. Despite both sides of the political spectrum worshiping women in their own unique ways and hating men in their own unique ways, this isn’t how it’s supposed to work in a healthy society. Men are not inherently lower than woman or evil or anything else society would have you believe.
Woman was made to be submissive to man. Woman was created for man. They know this and even get angry when you don’t. Despite parroting all the parties lines, women are an instinctual level don’t believe them. But women will do whatever to maintain their reputation and social standing (despite violating it all behind closed doors). You are already more than enough for any woman just by the virtue of being a man. You do not have to compensate for being a man by trying to serve woman better if anything this will have the opposite effect on women pushing them away from you. And one hundred times more important than that it is an affront to your manhood. Your most sacred possession. Women should be grateful for sleeping with you, not the other way around. As I said before there is no such thing as “getting lucky” if you are a man (it’s the other way around).
Don’t Be A Human Dildo
There is more to life than servicing woman. Whether it sexually or through being a good worker bee for society. Man lives for himself not for others. Not for society and certainly not for women. The highest goal for a man shouldn’t be to be a good dildo for a woman (or wallet for that matter) but to fully embrace his masculinity and live life on his own terms in his own way. Fight against the social conditioning and you’ll break free. The chains eventually snap if you keep at it.
Remember a man lives his life for himself not for women and certainly not to be a trained dildo. There is nothing inherently wrong with pleasing a woman granted that it’s done for the right reason. That is you’re a man and you naturally please your woman. Woman are not inherently better than men, if anything it’s the opposite. Don’t swallow the lies you’ve been fed. Spit them back up and dine on the truth. Do so and you will grow strong and wise.
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-Charles Sledge
