Our society rewards those who castrate and belittle themselves. You know the males who use self-deprecating humor, refer to their wives as their “better halves”, and generally defer to anything and everything around him. It makes sense though castrated sheep are much easier to control and cajole than feral wolves. However what is best for those in control is hardly if ever best for you as the individual.
You must live for one person and one person only and that person is yourself. This doesn’t mean you can’t care about others or your country, tribe, or anything of that matter. It simply means when it comes down to it you put yourself first and take care of yourself first. You must understand then if you are a man who has taken the time to invest in himself and forge himself then you are deserving of the best. Once you understand this so much in your life is going to fall into place.
It’s Only Natural
For example a rich man who has worked hard for all that he has thinks it is only natural when he is taken care of and given the absolute best. You should think no differently. You should feel that it is only natural that you sleep with the most beautiful of women because of all the work that you have put into yourself as a man. I’m not saying to be entitled necessarily. If your some weak fat shit and get all angry when beautiful women ignore you well that’s your own fault.
Don’t be arrogant rather be confident. Arrogance stems from insecurity while confidence stems from security. There is a big difference between the two. Think about it like this if someone asks you to spell your name you simply do it. You have confidence in yourself that you can do, you expect to be able to do it no problem. You’re not cocky or arrogant about it because it’s no big deal. You need to become the same way with beautiful women.
You Deserve The Best
If you have been applying everything that you’ve learned from reading my site you are quickly going to rise to the top ranks of men. You are soon going to be at the top of the pyramid. You didn’t put all this work into yourself to waste it on things that aren’t worth your time, this includes women. A good portion of women are going to be unworthy of you and that is a simply fact. Most would call this arrogance or some other shame word designed to keep you a slave.
But it’s a fact. Despite what society says women aren’t superior to men simply for existing. A lot of women aren’t going to be worth your time. Don’t get me wrong there are certain times when lowering your standards may be productive but those are very specific. A guy who sleeps with lots of women isn’t out approaching a bunch of 5’s during the day. He’s working on himself and doing what comes naturally to a masculine successful man.
You’re The Prize
This is essentially what it comes down to you are the prize, not the woman. It’s one thing to say this and another to believe it. Once you have internalized this belief beautiful women are going to be naturally attracted to you because you are expecting beautiful women to be attracted to you. Life is very much a self fulfilling prophecy and it always pays to assume attraction even when you’re just getting started.
When you become the king you think it’s only natural that you sleep with tons of beautiful women. When you are the best you expect the best. If you were Michael Jordan would you play for some lame ass pee-wee team? Of course not. You’d only play for the best because you are the best. You must value yourself and you must value yourself highly. Remember you are the prize not the woman.
Summary
You’re the best so expect the best. It’s only natural for a masculine man to sleep with beautiful women. You’re the prize not the woman. You must value yourself and value yourself highly. It shouldn’t be a surprise when beautiful women want you and you sleep with them, if anything it should be expected. Not in a needy entitled ‘I need this to feel fulfilled and validated’ sort of way but rather a “of course beautiful women want me” quiet confidence sort of way.
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-Charles Sledge
