“Does she like me?” is a question that an attractive man never asks himself. “Will I like her” is the one that is on his mind. Males have been trained by the media, society, and often their parents that women are special angels that grace men with their presence and who men are lucky to associate with. Obviously this laughable at best and pathetic at worst but regardless it is a false statement. You’ve probably heard a male say about the woman that is tolerating him until she can find a real man to fuck her “I’m lucky to have her” or “She’s my better half”. I apologize I’m sure I just made half of you puke. I’ll give you some time to recover.
Alright now that were back this above perverse mindset is unfortunately quite common in our society. So when a man finds his balls and realizes that women are made for his pleasure and that they are lucky to have him. In other words that he is the prize then the dynamics change. Once you become a man you never again care if a woman likes you or not. You only care if she is worthy of your time. You already assume that all women are attracted to you. Which brings us to another fundamental of being a good bad boy.
Always Assume Attraction
Life is for the most part a self-fulfilling prophecy and it is no different with women. Remember women go with whatever the most dominant frame is. And if that frame is “I’m an attractive man, obviously you are attracted to me, now let’s see if you’re worth my time” then women will naturally go with it. Compare that with the guy who worships women and puts them on a pedestal who’s frame is “I’m not worthy goddess”. You know that guys that think banging a girl is “getting lucky” or some other cringe worthy statement. When you go about your life you should assume that every woman that you meet is attracted to you.
It only makes sense. You are after all an attractive guy…right? So much of this comes down to mindset. Guys who get laid a lot with the women they want have the right mindset while guys who don’t have faulty mindsets. I’ve seen guys with big muscles and impeccably dressed who got shot down by girls because they didn’t have the confident masculine mindset but rather a weak feminine one. These same women ended up with guys who weren’t physically imposing but had balls. Which matters more than just about anything else. Assume every woman wants you and wants you desperately. Repeat it to yourself as an affirmation if you have to, do whatever it takes to get that idea into your head.
Assume attraction and assume success. Assume that women want to sleep with you and that they will. You will naturally draw women to you who are like this and repel the teases and prudes. Don’t put up with bullshit. Have high standards as after all you are an attractive man who all women want. When you look around you you’ll start noticing things you didn’t before. Like how many women smile and make eye contact with you. Most males are stuck in their head and never notice this. It never makes sense to doubt yourself. Remember the words of Shakespeare “Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we oft might win, by fearing to attempt.” wise words indeed.
Believe In Yourself
Much of this comes down to self-belief. To quote another wise man Henry Ford “Whether you think you can do a thing or you can’t…you’re right”. Assume attraction, assume that women want you, assume that you are going to have sex with the women that you want to have sex with. Once you have a rock solid confidence in yourself and have established your frame as a dominant man then you can go about your daily life knowing that you will draw women too you. Even if you don’t feel like you have that down yet it doesn’t matter. Assume attraction and the attraction will more often than not be there.
Obviously just because you assume attraction won’t make one hundred percent of girls attracted to you. But it will skew the odds heavily in your favor. By having the opposite mindset of the average guy you are already going to stand out. Now add in on top of that a dominant masculine frame and you’ll never have competition again. When you assume attraction some women will pretend like they aren’t attracted to you simply because you had the balls to assume it. Remember this is just a test, a test that can be easily passed.
Remember as a man you have a unique power. You can shape the world around you. The world conforms to the beliefs that are in your mind. Unless you are trying to change the laws of time and space you can accomplish what you want with your mind and the right mindset. Assume attraction, always, every time, without fail. When you do so you are going to not only capitalize on the women who were already attracted to you but you are going to make any women on the fence attracted to you because of your dominant frame.
Summary
A large part of being a good bad boy comes down to being stronger than the world around you. Which is a large part of being a man. To having a larger effect on the world than the world has on you. To being a force in the world. In exercising and developing your masculine power so that you become what you were created to be. Fully and truly a man. Someone who is master of their domain. This all starts in the mind.
I know it might seem strange but even something like being a good bad boy and having sex with lots of beautiful women stems from the mind. As is the same with living a happy life and making lots of money. When it comes down to it, it’s all about mindset and having the right beliefs. One of which is always assuming that a woman is attracted to you and that she wants to have sex with you. This is another core belief of becoming and living as a good bad boy.
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-Charles Sledge
