What exactly constitutes a bad boy? You ask ten different people and you will get different answers yet there will be similar themes that run through each one. Bad boys are the guys that all women say they hate yet all women date and sleep with. They are the guy that betas try to model themselves on how not to be. They are the guys that women dream about and get wet for. They are essentially men that have not been completely castrated by society. They don’t follow the rules and that makes them “bad”.
I always found that “bad boy” thing to be a bit funny, especially after getting the label. To me a bad boy is simply a man who has grown out of being a boy and into being a man. Which naturally is going to go against societies programming of how males should be as well as create a lot of attraction with women. To me a bad boy is simply a good man. A bad boy is a man who is masculine. Which is why others hate and fear him so. Because they can’t compete and know they can’t be like him. So the weak gather against him to cast their verbal stones and disapproval. Of course this means nothing to the bad boy who has better things to do.
A Bad Boy Is A Good Man
A bad boy is a man who has embraced his masculinity. He doesn’t listen to others. He speaks his mind, and he does his own thing. These are all sins according to our nanny state society. It’s goes against what our teachers, the media, and governmental officials tell us how men are supposed to act. If your not a docile sheep who dutifully serves women, works a job for the state, follows all the politically correct rules, and you happen to have a function set of testicles between your legs then your considered bad by societies standards.
But remember in and upside down world bad is good and good is bad. So when I say be a bad boy or how to be a bad boy what I am getting at is how to be a good man. Which despite what weak males and women will tell you does not include dutifully serving a woman (or anyone other than yourself). Being a good man means being a bad man or a bad boy according to most women and society. Of course women are attracted to bad boys like nothing else but since when has what women said and what they’ve done ever matched up (hint: never). So embrace your masculinity and become a bad boy by becoming a good man.
Your Own Man
A bad boy owns his masculinity and himself. He doesn’t take orders from anyone. Sure he will listen to others he respects but at the end of the day if he does something it is because he and he alone wants to do it. He isn’t controlled, he in uncontrollable. Which is an inherent part of being masculine. Being uncontrollable, which is why governments fear masculinity so much and do all they can to neuter it. So they can have a docile sheep population. It’s the same reason women will try to neuter a masculine man that they have got some sort of commitment out of. Of course once he’s neutered they’ll get bored and move on to a man who has his balls in tact but that’s another story.
A bad boy cannot be controlled by women or society. Which makes him so attractive to women. He is a man standing on his own two feet in the world. He does what he wants, how he wants, with who he wants. He knows that to be a man is to make your imprint on the world, take what it yours, and shape the world around you to your desires and wishes. He is the active and dominant force while the world and all in it are the reactive and submissive forces. This is the fundamental nature of man that the bad boy understands and embraces.
Don’t Be Controlled
A bad boy is free and can therefore be fully in tune and in touch which his masculinity. Making him stand out like a lion in a pack of sheep. It makes him irresistible to women and respected by other men. He is unapologetically who he is, he is unapolgetically masculine. He sees what he wants and goes after it. He takes what he wants from the world and lays claim to it. He treats the world as his own personal playground.
The first step to being a good bad boy is to resist and thrown off all forms of control. To take steps towards freedom until your are flying high and free in a world filled with slaves, drones, and sheep. Be a good bad boy and therefore become a good man. Don’t let the teachers, media, women, government, or anything else control you. Be your own man free in the world.
So be a good bad boy.
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-Charles Sledge
