I’ve written before about how to mold the world around you and how important it is for a man to be the force of nature men were created to be. A man lays claim to the world around him. Women, nature, and creation are the reactive forces that are acted upon while God and man are the active forces that act upon it. This is an order older than time. And something bad boys innately understand. They know the world is their canvas that they affect and are not affected by.
The world reacts more strongly to them than they do to it. They have the dominant frame. When they enter a situation their reality is penetrating the reality of any around them. When they meet a woman and he knows the woman wants her and she thinks she doesn’t eventually she does. This may sound out there but it is how the world works and something bad boys understand. They are dominant and what they say goes. The mold the world around them. They take things where they want them to go when they want something to happen then they make it happen.
A Force Of Nature
Man is a force a nature and a bad boy is essentially a man who is masculine. And masculine men stand head and shoulders above the pack. They are a force of nature. Wherever they go they leave their mark. People know when they have interacted with them. They can feel their innate power. This all originates from the mind of the bad boy. In his mind he has taken control of it to mold himself into the man he wants to be and then after that molds the world around him into the reality he wants it to be.
Men are creators. This is true of art, life, and anything. Women, marble, canvases, are things to be acted upon. As man is the active force. The masculine energy that is so lacking and stifled in our society is the very thing that life is made of. This is the power, the energy that the bad boy possess that makes him so attractive to women. Sometimes it is unregulated and used improperly. The guy who beats his woman or abuses her. However that energy still attracts women just like a woman with measurements of 36-24-36 even if a psychotic whore is still going to attract men. Men are attracted to feminine bodies like moths to a flame as women are attracted to masculine behavior in the same way.
Cultivating That Energy
So to become a good bad boy like everything else in life it starts in the mind. The mind is the birth place of everything. A bad boy embraces his masculinity. He loves being a man and loves women who are women. This doesn’t mean he goes around hating men who are feminine or women who are masculine as he has better things to do with his time. He simply ignored and/or disregards them. He starts by molding his mind into what he wants. He looks at the type of man he wants to be. Each day he tells himself he will be that man. Step by step he exercises his masculinity and mind until they both become powers to be reckoned with.
He learns the use of his mind to shape himself then to shape the world around him. He is unaffected by others around him yet often affects them deeply. This isn’t to say he doesn’t feel or care, just that he is sturdy and in control of his emotions. A woman may be freaking out on him or testing him but he is unresponsive as his reality is stronger. This isn’t to say he will tolerate abuse or disrespect, simply to say he doesn’t let things get to him. He moves the world and is unmoved by it. He is more powerful than the world. He believes in himself.
Summary
Bad boys naturally embrace their masculinity and the dominant mindset that comes with it. They naturally have the stronger frame and shape the world around them. This can be cultivated through the use of your mind. Your mind has the power to do anything other than change the laws of nature. Anything else is up for grabs. You can fashion yourself into anything that you wish to be. Be dominant. Your frame is the strongest. When you go out into the world you are the one affecting and molding it, it is not affecting and molding you.
This is to be a man. Which is essentially what a bad boy is. A male who has embraced his masculinity and is therefore a man. Understand this your mind is stronger than the world. You choose your own path. You are a man, the active force. The dominating force. You were born with this power as a man, you must embrace it. Face the world with your head held high, you are the dominant one with the stronger frame. Always remember that.
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-Charles Sledge
