If there is one thing that can be said of the majority of pickup artists out there is that you rarely find a strong masculine man among them. As a matter of fact I can’t think of any strong man who is also a pickup artist off the top of my head. These guys are usually spindly, weak, and effeminate. And they purport to teach guys to pickup girls. Look plenty of these guys get laid but getting laid is so damn easy that it’s nothing to brag about. If you’re having trouble with girls it probably has nothing to do with your game.
The more males that I talk to and interact it with the more I realize that most above all else are in desperate need of testosterone. I remember when I was first exposed to pick up artists how ridiculous I thought it all was. Now I’m not talking about every guy who goes under PUA and certainly not everyone who talks about attracting women. That’s not what I mean at all. What I’m talking about is the guys who have advanced flow charts on how to take a woman home from a bar. Something that I thought was as natural as having an erection when you wake up.
The Source Of Many Males Issues With Women
Alright so it’s not secret that Western society isn’t exactly healthy. Sure you can make the best out of it and certainly should (as an individual can transcend the society he is in, no excuses) but the point here is that many males are starting from a very low starting point. Many have had no masculine influence, have been exposed to all kinds of estrogenic and weakening chemicals in the food and water, as well as had their mind’s poisoned by all types of unhealthy feminist indoctrination from the media, schools, government, and even churches. Combine that with other issues such as imbalances caused by poor diet and we have a recipe for one confused kid.
Now these kids want to meet women (as they naturally should) however they have absolutely no knowledge of how to go about doing it and not enough testosterone and masculinity to simply go after it. Not to mention that even if they did the indoctrination in their mind would often keep them from getting what they want and going for it. I never knew what approach anxiety was until I read about it in a pua book.
Testosterone & Nature
You see I never knew what approach anxiety was (or that I was supposed to have it and that everybody had it, except me who didn’t get the memo). Sure I’ve been nervous when going up to talk to a girl before who hasn’t? I remember most nervous I ever was was in sixth grade when it was one of those dances where all the guys went to one side and all the girls went to the other. I decided to man up and cross the gap and ask the prettiest girl to dance. She shot me down but I kept going until one of her friends danced with me. So sure I was nervous but I figured it was just like anything else not this whole entire thing that I have to have.
As I got older it got easier because I wanted the woman more. Shit when you have enough testosterone coursing through you, you’ll hit on a girl right in front of her boyfriend. Might get your ass whipped but it wouldn’t stop you from doing it the next day. Point is with testosterone things like approach anxiety, psyching yourself up, and all of that stupid nonsense aren’t needed. Remember this stuff is all supposed to be natural. As a matter of fact all a “natural” (another word I learned from a pua book) is is a kid with normal levels of testosterone and some balls. That’s it.
Stop Making It Hard
Look a guy could spend his entire life taking every pua course and seminar that there is but if he doesn’t address the underlying cause of low testosterone then he’s going to always be fighting an uphill battle and that’s putting it lightly. I didn’t believe it when I heard “pros” say they needed to talk to one hundred girls to get one to sleep with them. I have ugly friends with no game, no red pill awareness, and not even that high of T levels who do better than that. Look I’m not saying testosterone is everything. After all understanding of women, basic game, and red pill understanding do a whole hell of a lot.
But without testosterone you’ll always be fighting an uphill battle. It’s like this let’s say you wanted to cross a great raging river. Now let’s say you could get across whatever way you wanted the only thing that mattered was getting to the other side. PUA without testosterone would be like training for years to be a great swimmer simply to make it across. Testosterone by itself would be like hopping in a boat and just scooting across. You end up with the same result but one was a hell of a lot easier than the other.
Summary
Now with all this being said I don’t want you to think that I don’t think there is any value in seduction literature or that all of your problems can be solved with a bottle of test. That’s not what I mean. I simply mean that without testosterone you are doing yourself a disservice and will never fully get to where you want to go. It’d be like pushing a car around instead of using the engine. Sure you can still get places but it’d be much easier to get the engine working. Then you can worry about other things like the tires and such. But only once the engine is running. It’s the same with testosterone.
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-Charles Sledge
