You’ve probably heard the saying “Those who hesitate…masturbate” and there is much truth to it. One critical part of sleeping with the women that you want as well as being a man is being a trigger puller. Being a trigger puller means being someone who takes action, who gets things done. They don’t wait for others to get what they want when they see something they want they go after it themselves unashamedly. These men are the ones who get what they want out of life. They lay claim to the world and all that is in it, as men should.
Men were made to be decisive, to be leaders, to be in other words a trigger puller. Women can hew and haw and go back and forth but men must take action. A man must think and then act. He must go forward boldly and with confidence in himself. He can’t sit back and go back and forth. A makes a choice and then goes forward with that choice he is decisive. He is a trigger puller. Being a trigger puller is another key tenet of becoming and being the bad boy of women’s dreams.
The Trigger Puller
The title “trigger puller” comes from men who when it came down to it weren’t scared to pull the trigger. Pretty obvious right? But it has a deep meaning behind it. Every male can talk, but talk means nothing. It takes a special male, a man to actually take action. The man who takes action always ends up ahead of the man who spends all him time talking or thinking. Action is what causes things to happen not talking. Remember actions speak louder than words. It doesn’t matter what a man says what matters is what he does.
Someone who can pull the trigger is someone who is decisive and not afraid to take action. They may be a man of few words or not, this doesn’t matter. What matters is that he has the balls to take action and carry through on his thoughts. When he sees something he takes it, it is as simple as that. He is fulfilling his natural role as an active force in the world. He causes things to happen. He takes charge and he takes the lead. If he wants to kiss a woman he kisses her he doesn’t wait for her.
When a man who is a trigger puller decides to do something, he does it. No questions asked and no hesitation. The simply fact that he wants to do something is enough for him to do it. He doesn’t wait on others or need permission from others because he is a trigger puller. He is not afraid to be an outlaw going his own way and carving his own path. As long as he is at the helm and therefore has the capacity to take action he is fine.
Be Decisive
When you make a decision (and you should do so quickly) stop thinking about it and take action. Don’t rely on the advice of others or what they want, listen to your own heart and follow your own path. This will allow you to be a trigger puller because the only person you will have to answer to is yourself. This will free you to take action because you’ll be in the driver seat. The passenger no matter how much they want to cannot take action to alter the path that the car is going in. Only the driver can do that, make sure you are the driver of your own life.
A trigger puller touches women when he wants. If he sees an attractive women he goes right up and starts talking with her apologetically. He shows his true desires completely and fully, he holds nothing back. He appears spontaneous because he is following his own path and not living the agenda of another like most people. He takes action quickly because there is only one voice he is listening too and that is his own. He is the entrepreneur where most people are the committee trying to get something done. The entrepreneur has only himself to listen to while the committee will never get anything done because of the many voices that are being heard.
I want you to do an experiment to start becoming more decisive. To help develop yourself into a trigger puller. Whenever you come to a decision you have ten seconds to respond and then no matter what you stick with that decision. Even if it sucks. You listen to your voice and your voice alone, you disregard the voices of those around you, the society you live in, and anything else that isn’t your own authentic voice. Do this for a month and report back how you developed your trigger pulling skills.
Summary
Being a trigger puller is something that can be developed. The guy who takes action everyday to become what he wants to be will always beat the guy who has every natural advantage. Natural advantages are nice but they are not what ultimately matter. What ultimately matters is who is going to put in the work and take action. You could be the biggest wimp in the world but with time and effort you can fashion yourself into whatever it is you want to be. That’s one of the beauties (and frailties) of being human. You’re mold-able. It all stems from your mind.
You can change into anything you want or you can be changed into what others want you to be. Make no doubt about it you will be molded. The question is into what mold? Into the mold that you desire? Into the mold that you want to be? Or into the mold of what others or society wants you to be? A mold that has their best interests at heart and not your own? I think the choice is clear, now go out there and become the man that you were destined to be.
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-Charles Sledge
