Most guys fall into the category of thirsty pursuer or loser. They buy things for women, lavish compliments on them, and become their slaves in hope that women will reciprocate with sex. This approach is not only dishonest and unmanly but incredibly ineffective yet nevertheless it is the path that the majority take. They would do well to remember Einstein’s famous phrase “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results”. Point is instead of chasing women and continue going home to your hand instead what if you could have women chase you?
Of course being the man you will have to instigate and lead the interaction but having women invested in the process is going to help you tremendously. There are a couple things that you need to keep in mind to make this a reality. There are two kinds of men out there. The 20% who sleep with 80% of women and the 80% who settle for scraps. This article is going to teach you how to be at the top of the sexual pyramid and stop settling for table scraps when you deserve the whole feast. So let’s begin.
The #1 Thing You Must Remember
The number one thing you must remember to have girls chase you instead of you ineffectually chasing them is that you are the prize. You are the king and she is lucky to be around you. She is the one who is getting lucky. Males have been trained in societies that they are worth less than women. This is ingrained by schools, the media, as well as many religions (at least now) and is often foisted on children by their parents. This applies to both Liberals and Conservatives and just about any other distinction that you can think of. They may have different reasoning but the end message is the same. Women are better than you.
This is obviously bullshit as any red pill aware man is mindful of. However it is one thing to know something and another to act like it. And not just that but you must communicate this to the woman that you are interacting with. This is a process but it begins with understanding. Tell yourself everyday that you are the prize if you have to. Affirmations may take time but they sure as hell work. Say it even when you don’t feel like it, the constant repetition will eventually break down old beliefs. Read some good books on game to help understand the dynamics behind this. But get this in your head.
Give Her Room To Invest
Many guys think that the more they say or do in an interaction with a woman the better. They think the more they talk or they push for the interaction the better it will be. But this is not so. An interaction is just that an interaction involving two people. There has to be a give and take. Granted at first the man will have to do more of the investing, RSD has a pretty solid metric of 90% male 10% female at the beginning of an interaction. Which makes sense as the man must start the interaction and lead. However most guys keep that at that level for the duration of the interaction. Even if the woman wants to invest she is never given the opportunity to do so.
You must give the woman some room to invest in the interaction. Yes, at first you’ll be doing most of the investing but that changes. Allow her to show interest in you, ask questions, and such. Yes, still be the man and be the leader but allow for a give and take. Once she is interested pull back on the throttle a bit and allow her to have an interaction with you. Otherwise she’ll never get a chance to invest and therefore will not be chasing you no matter what. Even if she wanted to.
Make Requests Of Women
Now I’m not saying to treat all women as your personal servants (although that’s a hell of a lot better than treating them as a master) but rather to not be afraid to make requests of women and give them a chance to serve you (which if you are an attractive man all women want to do). Make demands of them. Let them serve you and do things for you. Remember you are the king, you are the prize. You are worthy of being served and taken care of. Have her do things to invest in you. “Test” her the way women test males. Make her jump through some hopes and work for it. Be a challenge.
Speaking of which playfully tease and challenge her. Break out a backhanded compliment or two. Bust her chops, get her worked up. Don’t let her just sit there in your presence unaccosted. It’s a challenge she has to work for you. Make her chase your validation and just when she thinks she has it, take it away and do the whole thing over again. Remember emotional spiking is the number one thing that matters in having sex with lots of women and it’s incredibly important in getting them to chase you.
What This Comes Down Too
Essentially what this comes down to is understanding you are the king and then making the woman your emotional plaything during the interact then drawing back a little back. So that she then fills that gap with her own investment. Then once she is hooked you’ll have her. Make her your emotional plaything (not in a cruel way but in a playful fun way) and then make her your sexual plaything in the bedroom and you’ll have more women chasing you then you know what to do with.
By the way if you’re having trouble getting the whole “I’m the prize” thing down then get a copy of my book Become A King ASAP and you’ll never have that problem again.
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-Charles Sledge
