You’ve probably heard the phrase “attraction isn’t a choice” it rings true but have you ever stopped to think about why this is? Why isn’t attraction a choice? Why can a man be a giant asshole who all women are “supposed” to hate get laid left and right and yet the politically correct male that does everything society tells him to ends up with his hand night after night? This is because attraction is based in biology, not ideology. And as we all know biology always, always, always trumps ideology.
Hence it makes sense that the roots of sexual attraction are going to be based on human biology. The same biology humans were created with and that the last man will have when it all ends. This biology can be resisted but it cannot be overriden and males have a much higher capacity to resist their biology then women who are all essentially slaves to it. Then again most males are as well.
The Roots Of Sexual Attraction
So what is the root of sexual attraction between men and women. We know that things like dominance, taking charge, and passing shit tests all turn a woman on yet why exactly is this? What is the underlying factor at play here? Is it strength? In a sense yes yet it isn’t strength in and of itself. Alright what about dominance, we’re getting closer but even dominance in and of itself isn’t the root. We can look at a bunch of different factors but still come up short. Only by looking at the root can we truly grasp what attraction is and what causes it.
The root cause of attraction for women is masculinity and the root cause of attraction for men is feminimity. Not what society says is masculine and feminine which can be completely misconstrued and is usually done for propaganda and social engineering purposes more than anything. But rather what our biology says is masculine and feminine, which never has changed and never will change. What made Bo the caveman attracted to Sally the cavegirl will make Don the advertising exec attracted to Kelly his secretary and vice versa.
Expressions
The reason that dominance, taking charge, and passing shit tests all hit a woman’s button is because they are all expressions of masculinity. It’s the same with teasing or giving a woman a backhanded compliment it expresses confidence and other traits that all are expressions of masculinity. Likewise when a woman is smiling, bubbly, submissive, kind, loving, and has 36-24-36 figure (with that being the most important factor) she is going to be incredibly attractive to men because of how highly she expresses her feminimity.
The higher you express your masculinity the more attractive you are to women and the higher a woman expresses her feminimity the more attractive she will be to men. However some misintrepret this polarity and fall into some errors. One is that men and women both have a feminine and masculine nature in them. This is not true. Males can “ape” feminine behavior and females can “ape” masculine behavior but just like the ape “apeing” a human doesn’t make him one a male or female aping the behavior of the other sex doesn’t give him or her that energy.
Reality
Some think that “Well masculine women will be attracted to feminine men and vice versa” but they are wrong and their thinking patterns have been polluted by society (just like the “apeing” example above). “Masculine” females are masculine because their is not masculinity around them that they can submit to. Feminine males are just broken and need to be fixed by the men around them. Masculine females are broken to but simply need to interact with a masculine man to quickly resume their natural role.
For example I’ve seen bitchy “masculine” women turn into submissive (and often horny) lambs around me and other men like me much to the shock of their beta boyfriends. Every man wants a feminine woman and every woman wants a masculine man. Even lesbians want men. This basic truths are taboo in our society. But it doesn’t matter. There is no need to fight the useless fight against society. Rather accept these truths and learn from them. Build the life you want and let society crumble in its lies.
Summary
The truth will set you free. The root of sexual attraction is the polarity between the masculine and the feminine that is rooted in our biology not what society says. There is no such thing as femininity in males or masculinity in females they can only “ape” one another and when they do it makes them repulsive in every way. “Masculine” females are simply females who haven’t been exposed to real masculinity and “feminine” males suffer from corrupted ways of thinking and need to be set straight if they are to not suffer through life. Always remember biology trumps ideology.
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