The red pill is a life saver for many men. Overall it has impacted men and society for the better. It helped my life as it has countless others. However with that being said every group no matter how helpful usually has one or two concepts that tend to cause problems down the road. The red pill is no exception to this. A man who is healthy when meeting the red pill will absorb it and become the stronger for it. However when weak, angry, and/or bitter men meet with the red pill it can be used as validation for wallowing in their hatred or self-pity. Or used to justify living a life filled with anger and bitterness.
Many men have been wronged and justifiably have strong reactions to that. I am not here to deny anyone their emotions including anger. As a matter of fact anger is warranted and needed when first being exposed to the red pill. However when anger, hatred, or bitterness become the end goal instead of being and man and creating the best possible life for yourself that is when problems emerge. Most of the criticism of the red pill has come from erroneous sources. Such as feminists and manginas, however with that being said many are aware of and have pointed out some faults when certain concepts are taken too far. None more so than that all women are evil and out to get you.
Not All Women Are Evil And Out To Get You
Despite the bitter sides of the manosphere belief to the contrary not all women are evil and out to get you. Not all women are evil cheating sluts. This is a misinterpretation of the red pill. This is where males see what it is that they want to see. It’s no different than the bitter jaded feminist women who go around saying all men are pigs or whatever their latest slogan is. Of course the jaded women are praised by society and the men are not but that doesn’t make wallowing in negativity any better.
Women aren’t evil. They are biological creatures like you I though much more prove to follow their emotions over logic than men. Are there evil unstable women out there? Yes, one hundred times yes and with the way society is going these numbers are only going to grow. But for men who have truly become men there are also women out there that are worth it. You may disagree with me because it conflicts with your worldview but it is the truth. Are they rare? Yes, they are but so what?
The Purpose Of The Red Pill
To me the purpose of the red pill is to spurn men onward and upward to new heights of self-development. To become fully and truly men. Not to sink downwards into a weak spiral of hatred and loathing. You got screwed by a woman get up brush yourself off and move on. Yeah it can hurt, it can suck, it can be the worst thing you experience in this life. But ultimately you have to overcome it and become stronger for it. Will it be easy? No not at all, but nothing worth it is. To succeed and be a man you must have the mindset of a winner and cut yourself from the loser’s mindset.
Regardless if those losers are bitter men who have been burned or angry feminists who are mad no one wants them. A spade is a spade and a loser is a loser, regardless of the ideology they dress themselves up in. Men and women were created for each other, not to be enemies as feminism and certain aspects of the manosphere would have you believe. You can disagree with me that’s fine but it won’t change reality. Again no one said this was going to be easy. Your ultimate goal as a man is to live your life to the fullest extent possible not sit around and whine about women/a woman no matter how bad she hurt you.
Summary
This article may strike close to home for many of you. You may feel anger, which is fine. Anger is part of the recovery process. You will go through a process and you need to go through a process of waking up to the reality of the world. Parts of this process will be painful but it is where that process ultimately leads that counts. Will it lead you to becoming the greatest man you can be or will it lead to you become the male version of a bitter angry feminist?
Not all women are evil sluts out to screw you over in any way possible. There are still plenty of good women out there, of course you must be quality to attract quality. You must be a man to attract a woman that’s worth it. Of course you must be a man to be free as well. Regardless you need to be a man and focus on yourself. Focus on improving your life and getting all that you can out of it. Bitterness, hatred, and negativity when held on to for too long are signs of weakness and have no part in a man’s life. Experience the emotions and then become stronger from your experiences. To do so is to be a man. We are here for you to help you though this process.
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-Charles Sledge
