If you want to be good at something then you need to do it daily. Reading, writing, lifting, boxing, whatever and seducing women is no exception. You wouldn’t take weeks off from the gym and then expect to be able to hop right back in where you were likewise it’s good to have a daily routine of getting the women you want into your life until you have a decent sized rotation that you can use. And then when you want to add to your harem or it’s getting stale you simply go out and start doing the same thing.
Focusing on something is the key to getting good at it. You should only focus on one thing at a time and have the rest in maintenance mode while you do. For example it’ll be hard to grow your business like crazy, double the amount of girls you’re sleeping with, and train to win your martial arts tournament all at the same time. Something has to give. This is just always something to keep in mind, so if you have little to no women in you’re life then it’s time to take care of this. This routine will show you how.
Daily Action
You can get whatever you want if you take enough action. Action is what you can control and therefore what you need to focus on. Not reaction. Just like a guy making cold calls all day doesn’t focus on someone not liking him but rather keeping at it until he hits the numbers that he wants. This isn’t to say it’s all a numbers game as that’s wrong and there are many things that make a difference but rather that you should keep your focus on taking action and in particular taking action every day.
Even if you’re scared or nervous by taking action every day (even if little at first) you’ll desensitize yourself to the fear and eventually it’ll be no big deal to you. Start off small and then advance rapidly. Start with small victories and then go from there. Always push yourself as far as you can. Don’t think “Oh that went okay but time to bail”. No, never limit yourself. And remember what it’s all about in the first place.
Approach 5 Women A Day
Alright this is the basics of the routine you are simply going to approach five women a day, easy enough right? So here are the levels beginner, intermediate, advanced. As a beginner you are simply going to go up to 5 women a day and talk to them. It doesn’t have to be sexual and you don’t have to let them know you find them attractive (though they’ll know just because you’re talking to them). You can ask for their number or what they’re doing later if you want. But talk to 5 new women everyday. For intermediate you’re going to approach 5 new women everyday and explicitly state why you did so.
You’re going to tell them you thought they were attractive and that’s why you approached. Be bold and confident. You’re either going to take them on a date right away, plan one for later, or get their number. Simple as that. Now for advanced. With advanced you’re going to approach 5 women a day tell them why you did so and immediately polarize things sexually. These women will have no doubt about what you want and you’ll not hide it. Make it know what you want. You’re either going to screw these women right away, screw them later that night, or screw them at another time. But there will be no ambiguity. Once you’ve gotten a woman back to your place no need to keep going out unless you want to.
Rinse & Repeat
Do this until you have the harem you want. Obviously the advanced option is going to work much faster than the beginner option but I know many guys aren’t comfortable with jumping into that right off the bat. Women want sex from men. You’re doing them a favor when you never hide your intent and give them what they want. Sex with a dominant man. Remember all women have a desire to be a man’s sexual plaything but not a boy’s.
Also approach enough women and you’ll have the sex life that you want. Take the action that you need to and you’ll get the results that you want. This applies to business, the gym, and with women. So get out there get the routine into practice and get the results that you want. Life is too short to do anything otherwise. Use this routine daily and you’ll go from dateless to a harem of women in no time.
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-Charles Sledge
