We all know the story. Divorce rates have never been higher, marriage has never been harder, relationships just aren’t worth it and so on and so forth. But what is not examined is what is going on underneath the surface, or the why behind all of this. Why are divorce rates so high? Why has marriage never been harder? Why are so many couples unsatisfied? There has to be a root cause to all of this. I would argue that while there are many factors that have led to less than stellar relations between men and women they all stem from a similar root cause.
While things like Feminism, the media, and globalists have done there fair share of destroying relations between people that is not what I am going to be talking about here. What I am talking about here is the reason that so many men and women are unsatisfied is because they have stopped relating to one another as man and woman and instead relate to each other as two androgynous individuals. Add in a deficit of masculine men and feminine women and this just adds fuel to the fire.
Man To Woman
In today’s society the sexes are taught to reject their biological God given programming and replace it with a Frankenstein version. This naturally leads to unhealthy relations between the sexes. Woman was created for man and they relate best when the man embraces the masculine and the woman embraces the feminine. Put another way when man relates to woman as a man instead of as an individual. Men who are masculine automatically do this as do women who are feminine. They naturally and automatically relate to the opposite sex as their respective sex. So a masculine man naturally relates to women as a man.
This is how things are supposed to be. The man masculine and the women feminine. These aren’t convenient labels that society has placed on the sexes but rather timeless biological truths that cannot be undone. You can only break yourself against the laws of biology they aren’t going to bend for you or ideologies. They will remain forever. When this is taken away things break down. Relations break down and this leads to anger and dissatisfaction, among other things, between the sexes.
Men Try To Be Women, Women Try To Be Men
Men are taught to hate their own masculinity and to be submissive in today’s society. They are taught that to be masculine is an outdated and evil concept. That the world has changed and the old ways are irrelevant. Men refuse to be dominant leading to women taking the reigns and becoming masculine themselves. Men do housework and women are head of the family, leading to failure. Essentially men try to be women.
Likewise women are taught to be feminine is awful and that their femininity keeps them down. They are taught to be masculine and to pursue masculine things. They are taught that having a baby will hold them back but pursuing a career is good. That wanting a man is wrong and instead women should focus on other things. Now obviously this cannot override women’s innate biology, but it makes for a confusing social atmosphere.
What’s The Solution?
So if the reason for so much unhappiness and dissatisfaction in relations between men and women is because they are not adhering to their biological gender roles than what’s the solution? The solution obviously for the sexes to return to their biological gender roles, the men masculine and the women feminine. But this is easier said than done. For one thing this change relies on men much more than women, let me explain.
For starters women are followers. They will follow whatever the dominant social trend or man is. So when society tells women to be manly and no man puts them in their place or tells them otherwise, that’s what they go along with. However for women they have a much harder time overriding their natural biology. That’s why a woman could blather on about the patriarchy, how she’s a strong empowered woman, and etc to all her female and beta male friends yet will let some misogynist jerk screw her brains out every weekend and be completely and totally submissive to him and love every second of it, without even realizing the contradiction.
Women are not leaders, they go along wherever their biology or society takes them depending on which one is stronger. For example no amount of social programming can prevent a woman from desiring an alpha guy yet when surrounded by beta males social programming is going to be stronger than whatever they say. Which usually leads to unsatisfied relations between the woman and the average male (who is beta thanks to social programming and a host of other factors). Once men start being men, women will follow suit and start being women. This will lead to more fulfilling relationships and keep both men and women satisfied. Be the man and the women will follow.
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-Charles Sledge
