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3 Reasons Why Your Woman Will Stray If You Are Not A Strong Man

Posted on by Charles Sledge

I don’t necessarily like doing these warning type posts but the truth needs to be said so that less men suffer because of ignorance of it. So few males know what it means to be a man. Even the rich successful ones that one would think have it together are still little boys on the inside. And as we know women want a man to look up to not a boy to look down upon. This is perhaps the greatest of the myriad of reasons why modern relations do not work out and why the divorce is so high. Why modern males and women are so unfulfilled. That fact of the matter is this if you are not a strong man than chances are you will not have a successful relationship with a woman, especially a long term one.

So much of your life is predicated on you being a strong man, on you being a man. Everything from you success in business, your success with women, to the quality of your life. A woman who has made a commitment to a weak male will resent that at some point in time. Some sooner and some later but that time will inevitably come, it’s not a matter of if but a matter of when. And when that time comes a woman is going to seek out a strong man sometimes subconsciously she won’t even know she’s doing it and other times fully conscious of it. This usually depends on how desperate the woman is getting to get away from the weak man she committed to.

Reason #1 - Her Biological Need For Protection

Women are by nature weak and need protection. I’m not talking about protection from dealing with their consequences or living a real life. I’m talking about on a primal level. Protection from angry beasts, hostile men, and the elements. Though the modern woman doesn’t have to worry about these things that natural desire for a man who is capable of dealing with these still resides in her. It’s in her biology. She wants a strong man who can snap the neck of the beast or other men who would harm her. She wants a man who is capable of handling himself.

Weak males are not capable of doing this. They cower in the face of danger and cannot protect the woman that they are with even if they wanted to. They are weak and when a man is weak he is despised by all. A weak man is going to turn a woman off she will not feel protected and will feel insecure. Her mind isn’t going to allow this and is going to naturally screen for strong men who are capable of protecting her. This need runs deep in every woman like a man’s need for a shapely woman to have sex with.

Reason #2 - Loss Of Respect

Women do not respect weakness. This is a fact. She may want to be sympathetic with you and she may voice that she appreciates what a bitch you are but in reality she can’t. You see women with their sissy Feminist husbands who probably honestly want to appreciate them (because these women are also brainwashed) but still end up getting screwed by the asshole bad boy because they have a biological desire for that kind of man. A woman can say she wants a nice sensitive guy and I can say that when I blink the world explodes but it doesn’t mean anything. Remember what a woman says means very little it is what they do that counts.

And what they do is go after masculine men and if they don’t have one they will be drawn to one at some point in time. If a woman loses respect for you than the attraction will be gone as well, there is no getting around this. Much to the shock of many males who do everything society says is right. They look after the kids, they support their woman in their delusions, they support all the right causes, the are good little slaves and then are surprised when they find while they were being good little boys their woman was out getting in on with the real man. Because they didn’t respect him and therefore he was seen as little more than an annoying utility. Once a woman loses respect then it’s pretty much over unless something is immediately done.

Reason #3 - Women Need Masculinity

Women do not respond to weakness and femininity again they can’t. What they respond to is masculinity which is why masculine men have no competition. This includes women who are lesbian one always tries to be the man but always ends up being a second rate version (yet sadly still more masculine than many Western males). Women need men despite what Western society would have you believe. Women need men they always have and they always will. Women go crazy without a strong man (or even a man) in their life. Look at the average 40 year old female divorcee to see what I’m talking about.

Imagine this. You are with someone who is supposed to provide you food but all they provide you with is stale bread and tofu. You never get real meat then another person comes along with an entire butchery behind them, who do you go with? Of course the one with the butchery. This is what it’s like for a woman who is with a weak feminine man. On one level it’s better than nothing but she still wants and can only be fulfilled by the real thing. Just like a man who is with a nagging fat woman when getting half a chance with a younger nice woman will take it. Because his wife/girlfriend/whatever is not fulfilling his need for a woman. It’s the same with women except they are way more prone to be led by their feelings and later rationalize their poor decisions than men.

Summary

If you are not a strong man it’s a fair bet that having a long term relationship with a woman who isn’t fat, a harpy, or both isn’t going to work. She may have left the bad boy(s) to settle down but she’ll eventually get a feeling for an exciting guy again and if that’s not you she’ll find it somewhere else. Sooner rather than later. This isn’t all women it’s just a trend. So don’t think “shit I’m not Clint Eastwood therefore my girl is obviously screwing another guy behind my back”. Things aren’t black and white, simple put if you are not a masculine man there is a high chance that your woman is going to find one.

Just don’t be the little Feminist bitch that males are pushed into being. Take a stand, put her in her place, have some balls and you’ll be fine. Just don’t expect to give into everything, try to be Mr. Mom, and be like most modern males because that will end up in failure. By failure meaning your wife/girlfriend will screw other guys. It’s a trend I’ve noticed. Especially in college when most guys are all neutered so not being me makes you stand out like a sore thumb (but in a good way). When you see a woman with a weak man you can bet she has a wandering eye. Be masculine and be a man and you’ll never have to worry about this.

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-Charles Sledge

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  • Mr. Tilde

    I believe that complementary opposites attract. Masculine men are attracted to feminine women and vice versa. A masculine woman will attract a feminine men, since real masculine men are naturally repulsed by manjawed bitches. I’ve noticed that there needs to be a healthy balance between masculinity and femininity in a relationship, with men inherenting masculinity and women, femininity. Once this balance get distorted, both men and women won’t be at peace.

    • Exactly Mr. Tilde. Very insightful comment. You should write a guest post sometime.

      • Mr. Tilde

        Thanks for the offer. If I get time out of my busy schedule, I would.

        I learned about the divine balance between the masculine and the feminine energy from Vedic literature. The concept of “Prakriti and Purush”, which is commonly known as the “Yin and Yang ” to you guys. In fact, every Oriental cultures respect this balance between the two complementary opposites. Except India, since most people don’t know anything about it, and is obsessed with aping the West, and calling it’s degeneracy as “progress”. It’s the reason why South-East and East Asians tend to have more feminine and least misandric women of all.

        What I’m observing from the West is that even today, the Anglosphere is totally oblivious about this complementary nature of the feminine and the masculine energy. There’s no such similar concept like that in Christianity ( the dominant religion of the Anglosphere ) or in any other Abrahamic religion. Then you have Cultural Marxism, which was successful in convincing the Anglosphere with it’s black and white thinking about human difference, claiming that such differences are a source of human oppression. It was after feminism incorporated Cultural Marxism during it’s 2nd wave, that it became a hateful supremacist movement. All of this was possible because the 1st wave feminists was completely apathetic towards to complementary difference between men and women.

        Until the Anglosphere respect the complementary sexual difference and have healthy respect for sexuality, it won’t take much time for the Western Civilization to collapse.

        Just like feminine women leave their husband/boyfriend when they become effeminate, I’ve also heard reverse cases where masculine men cheats on/leave their women when they become masculinized.

        • Having read different versions of the Bible I’d have to say they had a pretty good idea of the concept you are talking about. However modern churches are obviously nothing more than progressivism with a “Christian” bent or whatever. I think when living naturally it is impossible to not see the balance between the male and female. Only when living in a unnatural society like ours is it possible for people to become so blind to basic truths.

  • Lesson learned the hard way…

    I was thirty five years old when I began to lay down the law with women. What will happen when you are in a relationship and suddenly you start to lay down the law is the women will give you shit test after shit test to see if you will break… do not back down!

    When I was thirty five I met a man who told me about laying down the law - a Greek, he said that his girlfriend has to clean the house a couple times a week and if she does not have it clean to his standards he puts her face in the toilet… I said bullshit… he said no, she cleans the house, but she makes sure that she scrubs the hell out of the toilet, because if the house is not clean enough he does indeed put her face into it - she learned that lesson the first time… I laughed and said bullshit… he told me - if you don’t do what you tell your woman you are going to do she will loose respect for you, and she will think she can just get away with anything… it was extreme… but the man did have a clean toilet.

    It is true men will learn more about what women want by paying more attention to their actions than listening to what they say they want… don’t be too nice, don’t give her everything she asks for, don’t let her lead. I went from being a nice guy that lost the girl to tough guys, from being the type of man that tries everything to please women to the type of man the women cheat on their boyfriends and husbands with… might not be a good thing but that is how life played out. A big part of that was toughening up and finding my life without women - not needing a woman to make me happy, not needing her approval, and not needing her to make my life complete. Most modern women in the western world do not have much to offer men but sex, that has made it very easy for me to walk away from them without a second thought in these last twenty years, but for the young modern man - the weak, desperate modern man, with no options, who is afraid to upset the herd… he is destined for a life of misery if he does not snap out of his trance and make something better of himself - workout, toughen up, acquire skills, stack some cash, learn about women and decide on the life you want and go after it.

    I tell young men to put away some money for emergencies and never touch it. Keep your pantry stocked for hard times. Learn skills that will help you be more self sufficient. and learn to protect yourself and your property and family… and do not take shit from anyone… not from your women, and not in front of your women… have some honor.

    I have read in some men sites that respect is not important to them - I call bullshit, we all want respect from other men… even I have written that I do not have the respect of my own brothers and that I stopped caring about it - but what type of man would I be if I changed the course of my life to please them or others… this is something I simply cannot do… and I especially will not change who I am and who I want to be for a woman. If a man does not have the respect of his wife, how will his children respect him, his neighbors, his friends? You might just get more respect from men (and other women) if you get rid of her faithless worthless ass.

    Mr. Tilde is right - there is a reason why the most feminine women are with masculine men and why masculine men choose the most feminine women to marry… there is a reason.

    You have been cranking out some really good stuff Charles, I think I am all caught up, I really did enjoy reading the “Bad Boy” series - you should put that together as a free book… keep these gems coming.

    • Thanks Dash always appreciate your comments. Absolutely you must follow through with your word. Just like disciplining children. You have to follow through or all respect is lost. Even if you overplayed your hand or think better of what you said later it doesn’t matter you need to follow through and then after following through can adjust if needed.