What makes one woman end up on the street cutting her hair short and selling her body while the other stays at home raising children and loving and serving her husband? Masculine guidance. We know that women are like water meaning like water women take the shape of whatever they are put in. Put water in a cylinder and it will take that form, put water in a oval and it will take that form, and so on and so forth. Women adapt to their environment. You will not see women going against the social order. Whatever the people in power say women will generally go with as they are very socially conscious creatures.
There is only one force that can override all of women’s innate tendencies and that is masculinity. The entire social order and world may be against something but if a woman is with or around a man who is dominant and masculine and who stands against it she will stand with him. Women automatically go towards the most dominant presence. With weak men they go to the social order with strong men they go to the strong men. If Fascists are the strongest men in the society women will go towards them, if Muslims are the strongest they will go towards them, and so on and so forth.
Masculine Guidance
For years women have lived under the guidance of men. Essentially since the beginning of time. Yet in the past forty or so years this has been overthrown and replaced with the state, corporations, and the media being the most dominant force in a woman’s life. This had led to a host of issues for both women and men. For the society does not have women’s best interest at heart but rather their own. Women have become useful pawns in their schemes. And men have dropped the ball allowing their women to be led away.
Without masculine guidance women are left to their own devices or the control of the media/state. Women, like children, when left to their own devices will only hurt themselves. They end up with self-destructive tendencies. They cut their hair short, pursue a career over a family, sleep around, and then wonder when they hit thirty why they hate themselves so much. Of course society will find a scapegoat (usually men) and women being as easy to convince as children will abdicate themselves from the responsibility of their own lives and blame men.
Masculine Guidance In Relationships
In a relationship a woman needs masculine guidance. And if you don’t provide it and your woman is half way decent looking another guy will. And that will spell big problems for you down the road. Like I said above without guidance women will go down self-destructive paths and then get angry at men for not disciplining them properly. For example when a woman wants to cut her hair short and her man let’s her, she is going to be disappointed with him even if she can’t place why. Women want to be disciplined, like children, for them to end up healthy you have to say no.
If a man let’s a woman get out of shape or cut her hair short it’s his own fault for not giving her direction and putting his foot down. Remember you must put women in their place for both their happiness and your own. If a woman refuses to submit to your ways then you let her go to her own destruction. If a woman will not submit to you she isn’t worth your time and she sure as hell isn’t worth your commitment. A man would never tolerate disrespect from a woman. You’ll see women act crazy and do things to provoke a reaction from their man begging for guidance and for him to put his foot down. And when he doesn’t they lose respect for him and will find someone who will tell her what to do and put her in her place.
Have Standards For Your Women
As I grow my standards for women increase. And that’s just for having sex with them much less a commitment. For example if a woman doesn’t have long straight hair I’ll never date her. If she is bitchy I’ll never date her. If she doesn’t have a feminine disposition I’ll never date her. And if she wants to date me she’d better keep these things up. My commitment doesn’t come without stipulations and neither should yours. Never give out your commitment freely, value it highly.
Tell your woman up front if she ever gets fat that your headed out the door and then make sure to carry through with anything you say otherwise it’s an empty threat. Make her exercise when she’s dating you. Have a schedule for her if you must. Not saying you have to plan out every moment of her day but have some guidelines for her. Make her keep her hair a certain length. Have standards for her. She must have consequences for violating your standards. Women want to be led and told what to do. Of course you must be a man and not a boy but that’s a topic for another time.
Summary
Without masculine guidance women self destruct. They need guidance. Without guidance from you your women will either find another man who will guide her or go along with the social order. Both horrible options for you. This extends beyond relationships with lovers, girlfriends, and wives but also to daughters, sisters, and any woman that you care about. If their not being led by a man, they will run into the same trouble. All women require masculine guidance to live healthy and happy lives.
At one time the culture helped with this but no more. Not the culture is against it one hundred percent. But remember a strong masculine man will override the culture and any other men in the woman’s world. If your that man a woman will lovingly serve you because you give her the direction that she is so desperately craving and needing. Women were meant to be led by men and when men don’t fulfill this women are unfulfilled and self-destructive. And honestly if a man is in a relationship with a woman he will feel unfulfilled if he is not leading her. Give your woman masculine guidance if you care about her and yourself.
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-Charles Sledge
